Sex is Fun – Why Play Couples Games?
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Everyone wants an exciting and satisfying sex life. One filled with erotic adventures, stimulating sensations, romantic intimacy and creative foreplay. You want to experience fun new emotional thrills that bring you closer together. You crave the exhilaration of going beyond the ordinary – exploring outside your comfort zone with a trusted, loving partner. You need to feel that rush of naughty excitement as you push past your inhibitions and free each other to indulge in new sensual pleasures. Discover how couples games can fulfill your desires and why you should play more.
If you want more excitement in your relationship, you know your partner does too. They may not show it but you know their passion is just waiting for the right spark. Sometimes we just need permission to unleash our secret sexual desires – that signal that it’s okay to be naughty, frisky and playful. Couples games are perfect ways to introduce something fun and new into your relationship without feeling awkward about asking for it. When you both play to win, anything goes.
If you want to play more couples games, here are a few reasons you can use to help encourage your partner to play too:
- Romantic games set the mood for intimate touching, caressing and kissing. Strengthen your emotional bond when you slow down, gaze in each others eyes and talk more about your love and life together. Experience more closeness with a romantic massage or a relaxing bubble bath for two. Increase your level of trust so you feel confident exploring new love making ideas together.
- Relationship games give you a chance to find out more about each other. Even in long term relationships, we all change and grow. Ensure you don’t drift apart. Discover new interests that you can enjoy together. Develop a better understanding of each other and what you both need in the relationship. As a reward (winner’s choice), do something completely new and challenging together.
- Strip games are usually simple rule add-ons to regular games people play. Being forced to slowly strip as part of the game can be very exciting even if you are in an existing sexual relationship. Start playing innocently at first to break the ice. Then slyly increase the stakes and build the erotic tension. Begin with clothing removal and once you are naked, progress to erotic dares or more intimate rewards.
- Bedroom games include more intimate sexual foreplay ideas. You know you are going to have sex but you want to spice up your routine with new foreplay tips and techniques. Foreplay games allow you to playfully delay sex while you arouse each other in new ways and combinations. Mix in special sex rewards or forfeits to really crank up the erotic heat in your bedroom.
- Roleplay games allow you to explore your secret fantasies. Pretending to be different characters enables you to do things you might not let yourself do – it’s all part of the act. Relive special moments or create new ones in different locations. You can keep these games simple using only your imagination to get into character or go a little more extravagant with costumes and props. Even if you break out laughing or feel embarrassed, you will share memories that will bring you closer together.
- Kinky games involve more unusual sexual antics. Exploring fetish or taboo sexual subjects together can be the ultimate in trust. Revealing your kinky desires may make you feel extremely vulnerable. But sharing these deeper thoughts and feelings can create a very strong bond between you. You may also just be curious and want to experiment.
- Erotic games are not strictly sexual but do have an adult theme. Sexual trivia and adult truth or dare games may be included here too. Play these kinds of games to see how your partner reacts to different ideas that come up. Gaining more sex knowledge and learning more about how your partner thinks can make you a better lover. And of course, just thinking about sex will tend to make you want it more too.
- Adult party games provide an exciting way to find out what your friends are doing in and out of bed. You may even discover a few new ideas to try out. You also get a new perspective on how other people think and feel about sex. Being aware of how they feel may allow you to view or express your own desires in a more positive way.
Playing adult games and making love in novel new ways also keeps you feeling and thinking younger. Great sex is scientifically proven to enhance your health – mind and body. Laughing and playing together while having amazing sex is the prefect recipe to invigorate your love life. Play a couples game tonight and get wild & crazy in love all over again.
Remember, playing any game together with your partner is time well spent. Couples games involving sensual pleasure just make it even more fun.
Make Your Own Couples Games – Get Lucky with Frisky Dice
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Want to mix up the variety in your sex life? Sometimes we get into a routine or pattern without even thinking about it. When you change the sequence or combination of foreplay in your bedroom games, you may discover new pleasure sensations that will get you even hotter for each other.
That’s where Frisky Dice come in – erotic dice combinations can be used to randomize the foreplay you enjoy. They can even be used to randomly select different sex positions, lovemaking locations, role playing ideas or even sex toys to play with. Even though you know the sex activities available, not knowing which ones or in what combination adds to the erotic anticipation and excitement.
For the following erotic dice game ideas, you will need two standard dice of different colors. This gives you 36 possible combinations (only 11 if the dice are the same color). Adapt the game designs for even more combinations using either more dice or using dice with more sides than 6. Essentially all you need to do is create a list of different activities and map them to the numbers on the dice. Then you each roll the dice in turn and perform the corresponding activity. One of the great things about making your own frisky dice is that you can design different sets of lists ranging from romantic to kinky – start off slow and change the lists when you are ready for more intense action.
Do Me Dice
You will need two lists one for each die color. Create one list with 6 actions (Do) and another list with 6 parts of your body (Me). Some samples are:
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Do: kiss, lick, suck, nibble, tickle, massage
Me: arms, back, neck, legs, chest, butt
When you roll the dice, your lover matches up the corresponding action and body part then pleasures you as indicated. It can be a little tricky to choose actions that work with all the body parts especially when you attempt to work in more exotic foreplay pleasures. In some cases, think of the body part as a general region. For instance, arms could mean fingers, hand, wrist, elbow, etc. Also add a rule addition that the technique used must be slightly different each time if you get repeats.
For more fun, consider assigning sex positions (doggie, standing, oral, missionary, spoon, anal) to one list and locations (bedroom, kitchen, basement, outside, stairway, living room) to the other.
Pleasure Picker
Rather than limiting yourself to simple actions and body regions, spend a little bit more effort and detail 36 different pleasuring activities. Since you won’t have to worry about strange combinations that don’t make sense, you are free to include a full range of foreplay techniques. Include some exotic foreplay ideas you secretly desire. Design the list so you have a complete menu of erotic delights to enjoy. You can even create separate his & hers lists together. Or, make up your ideas privately to surprise each other with your wanton wish list.
Here is an editable PDF file you can download, fill in and print out: Erotic Dice Template
Create multiple lists if you desire – give each one a suggestive title. Make up 6 and use a die to choose which list you use for your bedroom games.
For each foreplay activity, agree on a time limit (requirement) of say 30 seconds to a full minute. Give yourself a few minutes at least for each sex position. Consider using a third die of a different color to determine the time – number rolled times 10 seconds of foreplay or times 1 minute for sex play. Add a fourth colored die for location around your house to really heat up the fun and games.
If you like, include other rule additions such as:
- Roll a double and you get to roll again
- If you roll two doubles in a row, strip one article of clothing
- Set a time limit of 30-60 minutes
- Check off each one done and play until you do them all
Your Frisky Dice game lists can also be used to spice up other regular games that use dice. For example, when playing Monopoly and you land on your lover’s property with a house, pay the rent but also perform the foreplay activity corresponding to your roll. And, when you land on a property with a hotel, use a hotter sex activity list.
Buy erotic dice with pre-printed actions, body parts and sex positions or design your own. Either way, it’s easy to shake up your sex life with frisky dice games for couples.
If you want a ready made sex game using 3 dice combinations, download the Frisky Foreplay game. It has over 200 erotic ideas for each of you.
Please share your Do Me Dice lists or sample Pleasure Picker ideas for others to enjoy.
Spice Up Your Couples Games – Make Your Own Frisky Business Cards
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Discover how you can spice up the games you play together as a couple. Transform them into amazing bedroom games to rev up your sex drive. You can even crank up the heat on couples games you already own. Keep the same game play but add in your own foreplay ideas to suit your sex life – be as romantic or kinky as you want.
Many adult board games come with a collection of cards that contain various foreplay ideas or sexual activities to perform. Certain events (landing on specific locations or winning a round) allow you to pick a card and receive a sensual reward or erotic penalty. When you shuffle the deck of cards to start the game, you ensure that the sequence and combination of foreplay activities you enjoy are different every time you play. But what happens if the games you like to play don’t come with sexy activity cards? Or, the cards you do have are too stale or bland to satisfy your desires?
Well, all you need is a little erotic inspiration, a printer and some business card sheets that you can get in most office supply stores. These come perforated for easy separation – use the clean edge style for best results. Some packages even come with software so you can edit the layout and design for an entire sheet. You can also print on plain paper or card stock and cut them out yourself. Hint: if using plain paper, consider laminating it before cutting out the cards (round off the sharp corners slightly) – the plastic coating makes them durable and easier to shuffle.
Begin by brainstorming a list of exciting foreplay ideas with your partner (or surprise them with your own erotic imagination). Use the existing cards or sex guide books to kick start your ideas. Be sure to mix in a few tame foreplay activities among your more wild sex play ideas. And of course include some foreplay techniques or sex positions you really want to try. Sprinkle in use of your sex toys and other erotic accessories you have available. Come up with 40-60 ideas on paper or in a spreadsheet then enter them into your business card designs.
Here is an editable PDF template you can download, fill in and print:
The card design is setup to allow you to fill in a title and a main foreplay idea or sex game activity. There is also a third region for an extended foreplay tip or extra rules. Each region is optional and the two foreplay areas support multiple rows of text.
You can even put the cards in a hat and pick one out randomly each time you make love. Creatively mix the idea into your love play. Or secretly hide them around the house and play Hide & Sex – have your partner search for them and enjoy the activity when and where ever they find one. See if you can find them all before you ravish each other completely.
As you read or hear about new sexy ideas, add them to your list. This way you can keep your bedroom games fresh and exciting – you’ll never know when a kinky new idea will pop up in the game. You can even map your list to playing cards or dice combinations and use these to randomly select even more foreplay fun to enjoy.
If you want more hot ideas for your couples games, download a copy of the Frisky Foreplay Game. Play this erotic dice game by itself or use the 200+ foreplay ideas in your own bedroom games.
69 Foreplay Ideas to Make Your Own Bedroom Games for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Not everyone wants to visit a sex store to buy couples games. If you crave more spice in your love life, make your own bedroom games using dice or cards. Just write down a list of ideas and map them to the card or dice combinations. It’s easy to do and you can change the activities later to mix up your sex play even more.
There are many regular card and dice games you can play using your foreplay idea list. With a little imagination, you can make up special rule changes so you both get to sensually play with each other too. Many board games using dice can also be enhanced with foreplay events. If you are eager to get down to business, just roll the dice or pick a card to choose an activity to perform – new combinations of pleasure again and again.
To get you started, here is a list of 69 foreplay ideas you can use to make up your own bedroom games. Play any couples game for two and make up your own rules to enjoy each other.
- As sexy as you can, strip off one piece of clothing
- Slowly remove an article of clothing from your partner (your choice)
- Slow dance together for one song – great when you are naked
- Put on one item of lingerie or sexy clothing your lover chooses
- Standing, hug and kiss each other passionately (French kissing)
- Perform a lap dance to music while removing one item of clothing
- Describe in detail a raunchy sex scenario involving both of you
- Lightly stroke your lover’s face, lips, neck and ears with your finger tips
- Caress, kiss and lick up and back down your lover’s legs
- Tickle the back of your partner’s knee with the tip of your tongue
- Trace the major lines on your lover’s palm with the tip of your tongue
- Take your lover’s thumb in your mouth and caress it with your tongue
- Lick and suck each finger on one of your lover’s hand
- Lick your partner’s wrist at the pulse point – exhale hot breaths on it
- Standing, snuggle up behind your partner – caress and fondle them
- Lick your lover’s nipple then blow cool air on it – repeat
- Warm your lover’s nipple in your mouth then suck in cool air around it
- Read a short passage from an erotic novel aloud in a sexy voice
- Fast forward to a hot & steamy part in an erotic movie – watch one scene
- Tickle the back of your lover’s neck with the tip of your tongue
- Seductively describe in detail how you want to ravish your lover later
- Use an artist brush to swirl flavored lube on your lover’s nipples
- Pick an advanced sex position from a book to try out later
- Pick a random page in a sex guide and use the technique later in your sex play
- Place tender kisses all over your lover’s face
- Stroke and rub your partner’s nose with your nose
- Choose something from the refrigerator to smear on and lick off your lover
- Blow “raspberries” on your lover’s belly or other ticklish regions of their body
- Use your tongue to tickle your lover’s stomach – belly and sides
- Sensually lick flavored lube or liquor from your lover’s navel
- Softly whisper how hot and excited you are into your lover’s ear
- Tenderly stroke, caress and kiss an exposed part of your lover’s body
- Expose your bum and allow your lover to give you a sensual spanking
- Orally pleasure an exposed erogenous zone - Kiss, lick, suck and nibble it
- Perform a sensual, relaxing or erotic massage – your lover’s choice
- Apply hot breaths to warm your lover’s crotch
- Use your tongue to stroke out loving or sexy words on your lover’s back
- Use your finger tips to massage your lover’s head and neck
- Pretend to have a wild and intense orgasm – put on a sexy show
- Massage each of your lover’s toes using oil, cream or lube
- If exposed, oral pleasuring in any position your lover chooses
- Select a sex toy and describe how you will pleasure your lover with it
- Stimulate your lover with a sex toy (visual stimulation counts)
- Lightly drag your nails down your lover’s back in different patterns
- Use a feather to tickle your lover’s face, neck and ears
- Make up a fantasy scene involving your lover self pleasuring while you watch
- Write you a sex coupon involving dressing up or erotic use of clothing
- Choose a sexy outfit or accessory for your lover to wear while making love
- Look into your lover’s eyes as you suck one of their fingers and fondle them
- Massage and nibble on your lover’s butt cheeks
- Kiss, lick and play with your lover’s testicles
- Lightly tickle your lover’s tailbone and between their butt cheeks
- Pleasure your lover with a sex toy – flip a coin to determine who chooses
- Caress your lover’s bare feet with your bare feet
- Stimulate yourself by rubbing against your lover’s leg
- Take your lover’s nipple in your mouth and hum as you lick
- Lightly bite and nibble your lover’s buttocks
- Use your breasts to caress any exposed region of your lover’s body
- Kiss and nibble along your lover’s neck and shoulder from the back
- Kiss and lick your lover’s throat and under their chin
- With the tip of your tongue, lick along your lover’s collar bone
- Find and read aloud a few dirty jokes – use books or the internet
- Quickly draw a favorite sex position, activity or erotic image for your partner
- Look on the internet together for ‘erotic art’ and discuss what inspires you
- Use an ice cube & your tongue to cool then heat an exposed erogenous zone
- Use a vibrator to stimulate your partner’s neck, chest and nipples
- Describe a new location where you would like to have sex and how
- Lightly stroke your lover’s inner thighs, along the crease and over their hips
- Apply your lover’s favorite perfume or cologne on a different part of your body
While many of the above foreplay ideas are gender neutral, a few are geared more for the man or woman to perform while the other receives. Pick and choose ones you like, modify them or create your own. Add a time limit while performing these activities if you choose or let them play out until you are satisfied.
Have more fun, more pleasure and more sex while you improve your relationship with hot couples games in and out of the bedroom.
Please share some of your favorite foreplay ideas that you use in your couples games together.
