Naughty by Nature – Erotic Adventure Game for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
A walk with your partner in a natural setting is a great way to unwind and reconnect. The tranquility of a park, meadow, forest or even a mountain trail will relax you both. Take time alone together to share and discuss your thoughts. While these moments with the one you love can be very romantic, it’s also a great opportunity to let nature inspire your lust for each other. You may even find a secluded location to satisfy your natural desires.
Even if you don’t want to unleash your passion outdoors, you can still let your imagination run wild with erotic ideas. Even if other people are walking around, you can secretly exchange clues to what you’re thinking. You’ll smile with a naughty grin as you point out interesting sites to each other.
Challenge each other to find as many erotic shapes or images as you can – anything that remotely reminds you of sex. This will help you focus on the natural beauty (yeah any excuse will do). You’d be amazed how many details you pick out when sex is on your mind. Your playfully naughty thoughts are like mental foreplay. You’ll be racing to your bedroom when you get home.
Make your erotic adventure more interesting by keeping score. Agree on who found the most interesting one or who finds the most to declare a winner. The winner receives a sexual favor or gets to play out a favorite fantasy. For this erotic couples game all you need is a dirty mind. Gaze at the clouds, notice interesting knots in the trees, search out insects mating, forage for ideas in the flowers or uncover manhood shaped mushrooms. Boulders, crevices, leaves and even tracks in the sand can trigger naughty ideas and arousing associations.
You can even find lewd locations to make love when no one is around. Describe when, how and what you could do in full erotic detail. Paint a mental picture of your sexy scene and see if you can resist ripping your clothes off and going for it right then and there.
Take a digital camera with you and capture nature in all its explicit glory. Collect sets of erotic pictures and organize them into a sexy slide show. Create DVDs to remember your outings together. You can watch your naughty nature shows years later. You’ll be amazed how fondly you recall the times you shared exploring your erotic nature together.
Here are a few samples of natural beauty that my wife snapped. See if you can tell what we were thinking.
Take any chance you can to enjoy nature together – any reason will do. It really is a great way to enhance your relationship whether you think naughty thoughts or not. Just holding hands and enjoying the fresh air and sunshine can be extremely rewarding. But who says romantic games can’t be erotic too.
Bet Your Foreplay – Strip Poker Rules for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
To really turn up the erotic heat in your private poker games for two, mix in sexual favors with your wager. Really special erotic treats are worth more chips. You can “Bet Your Ass” literally.
These rules assume you know the basics of poker play. Adapt to whatever variation you enjoy the most – Texas Hold’em works great with this couples game. This strip poker variation involves betting with chips to make the game more like the real thing. But it also allows you to bet with foreplay markers that represent chips. It slows down the stripping but mixes in more intimate play to build your excitement and stimulate your desire for each other.
Create a foreplay menu with a price list for various pleasuring activities. Write down a list of 10-20 sensual ideas each. Include a range of ideas from tender and loving to delightfully naughty or even kinky. Agree together on a price in chips for each foreplay item ranging from 5-50. Use these as special foreplay tokens or markers – pleasure promise notes that can be bet in combination with chips.
You can download, fill in and print the sample Frisky-Foreplay-Poker.pdf template.
Here are a few basic ideas to keep in mind before you begin (adapt as desired):
- You should each start with 4 or 5 pieces of clothing on
- Start with 50 chips each (give them any value you want)
- Play by normal Poker rules (any style you desire)
- Avoid nitty-gritty rules of official play – focus on hot fun
- Use no limit betting conventions – encourage all in play
- Alternate dealing and use small/big blinds or an ante
- Agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for the overall winner
- Play in bed or in a comfortable location that is warm
- Have a glass of wine or other refreshment to relax your inhibitions
- Collect a few foreplay accessories and have them available to use
Additional rules for this version of Strip Poker:
- If you go all in and lose all your chips, strip off an article of clothing
- If you’re already naked and lose all your chips, your partner wins the game
- Each time you strip, redistribute the chips evenly for the next round
- If you have the fewest chips, you can raise or call using a foreplay marker
- Use only one foreplay marker per hand – end further betting
- Once you play a foreplay marker, progress to showdown to see who wins
- If you lose a foreplay bet, you must perform it immediately
Other ideas:
- Use the FriskyBusinessCards.pdf template to create foreplay markers that you can bet in combination with poker chips (more info)
- Assign chip values to cards from other foreplay games and use them to bet
- Allow items to be double or triple bet to represent more time spent on a foreplay activity – assume 1-2 minutes for a single version
- Assign a price for each type of clothing you’re wearing – you’re allowed to buy/sell items to each other for more chips
- Allow the chip leader to “purchase” foreplay activities with chips at any time
- Pretend you’re high stakes players vying for millions of dollars – roleplay fantasy characters to add a spicy flavor to your game play
The foreplay marker concept gives you a way to add unending variety to your bedroom games. Just create a new set of sexual favors with different types of erotic ideas. It also gives you control over what you’re willing to do during the game. Initially, you may try going all in using just chips (it’s no big deal to strip off your outer clothing). But, as you shed more clothing and the game heats up, you’ll tend to bet more intense erotic activities to avoid losing all your chips (and maybe losing the game). Also, if you have a really good hand, you may want to bet something really naughty. Since you’re betting something your lover desires, they’re more likely to call your bet. Or they might think you’re luring them with temptation. This makes bluffing even more fun.
Note that foreplay activities are not always just about pleasuring your partner physically. Sometimes you’ll do something for your partner and other times you’ll allow them to do something to you. They may actually enjoy pleasuring you in certain ways. How you phrase the foreplay idea makes all the difference. For example:
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Massage your cock with my breasts – Let you thrust your dick between my tits
Lick your pussy until you purr – Spread my legs and let you lick my clit
Pleasure you with a vibrator – Watch as I pleasure myself with a glass dildo
Give you a sensual spanking – Bend over your knee and let you spank me
Pleasure you with an anal dildo – Allow you to use a butt plug on me
Write your foreplay rewards or sexual favors in a way that offers your partner something they want while receiving pleasure for yourself as well.
Also take a look at Pleasure Poker for a slightly different betting variation of strip poker for couples. Poker for Lovers is a game you can buy that comes with chips labeled with sexy ideas you can bet with.
Add Strip Poker to your collection of bedroom games and heat up the action in your relationship. Enjoy playing with your partner in and out of the bedroom. If you have any other sexy rules to share, please leave a comment. We would also like to hear about your experiences playing this game or any enhancements you add to it.
Strip Poker Rules for Your Bedroom Games
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
With all the interest in Poker on TV lately, it’s only natural that you would think of trying a game of Strip Poker with your lover. For couples, this classic strip game needs a few extra twists to make it more fun for two.
Almost everyone has heard of Strip Poker but few people really know the rules. Most just make them up. The basic rules go something like this:
- Deal a standard Draw Poker hand of 5 cards
- You can exchange up to 3 cards for new ones
- Show your hands – loser strips an item of clothing
- Play more hands until all but one player is naked
Some people include the following variations:
- Bet with chips – if you run out strip off your cloths to buy more
- Bet with truth or dares, double dares and clothing
- When you’re naked, replace stripping with sexy antics
Mix in some liquid encouragement with a group of friends and these versions of Strip Poker will easily heat up the party. There is not much of a game element to it – the fun and excitement come from watching your friends squirm as they undress and perform dirty dares. These rules might be okay for a good sized group of friends but for two players, you will get naked just a little too fast.
Although it’s fun to be "forced to stripî in front of your sex partner every now and again, the excitement wears off quick. You want to spice up this strip game with more foreplay to make it a hot bedroom game. You want to create sexual tension as you playfully build anticipation for wild sex with each other.
The game is also so much more fun when you have the chance to bet and bluff – reading each other’s body language to see what they might be holding. And, playing with poker chips just makes the game feel so much better too. Here are a few links that show you how to play strip poker as a foreplay game for couples.
- Bet Your Foreplay – bet with sexual favor markers and chips
- Frisky Forfeits – play for a list of sexy forfeits with a special climax
- Pleasure Poker – your pleasure comes from good hands
Try them all and adapt them to a style of play you both enjoy. You can also buy the Poker for Lovers game that has sex activities printed right on the chips.
Here are a few general ideas to make your strip poker games more enjoyable:
- You should each wear 4 or 5 pieces of easy to remove clothing
- Remove clothing with a sexy strip tease or let your partner do it
- Start with 50 chips each to keep things relatively simple
- Play by normal Poker rules (any style you desire)
- Avoid nitty-gritty rules of official play – focus on hot fun
- Use no limit betting conventions – encourage all in play
- Use small/big blinds or an ante – no holding back
- Agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for the overall winner
- Play in bed or in a comfortable location that is warm
- Have a glass of wine or other refreshment to loosen your inhibitions
- Collect a few sex toys and foreplay accessories – keep them handy
When you come up with foreplay activities or sexual favors during they game, remember that they are not always just about pleasuring your partner physically. Sometimes you’ll want to do something for your partner and other times you’ll let them to do something to you. They enjoy pleasuring you in certain ways too. Sometimes it’s more fun to give than receive. How you phrase the foreplay idea makes all the difference. Define your frisky rewards in a way that offers your partner something they want while receiving pleasure for yourself too.
Add Strip Poker to your collection of couples games and spice up your sex life. Have fun playing with your partner in and out of the bedroom. If you have any other rules for sexy card games, please leave a comment and share them with other readers. We would also like to hear about your experiences playing the game listed above or any enhancements you add to them.
Strip Poker Rules – Frisky Forfeits for Your Bedroom Games
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
This version of the strip game for couples leads you through a list of sexy forfeits with a special climax for the winner. These rules assume you know the basics of poker play – adapt to whatever variation you enjoy the most. Texas Hold’em works great with this bedroom game for two. This strip poker variation involves betting with chips to make the game more like the real thing. It slows down the stripping but mixes in more intimate play to build your excitement for each other.
Before the game, create a list of 10 foreplay activities each. You will go through the list from 1 to 10 as penalties when you lose all your chips. Start off slow and increase to more explicit sex play ideas. Mix in sequential removal of your cloths one piece at a time. Leave your last piece of clothing until near the end. Also define your foreplay activities (what you will do for your partner or what they can do to you) to match what you will not be wearing at the time. For example, no oral sex on you until after you strip your under wear.
You can download, fill in and print the sample Frisky-Strip-Poker.pdf template. Part of the fun is coming up with new erotic ideas to play for.
Here are a few basics to know before you begin (adapt as desired):
- You should each start with 4 or 5 pieces of clothing on
- Start with 50 chips each (give them any value you want)
- Play by normal Poker rules (any style you desire)
- Avoid nitty-gritty rules of official play – focus on hot fun
- Use no limit betting conventions – encourage all in play
- Alternate dealing and use small/big blinds or an ante
- Agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for the overall winner
- Play in bed or in a comfortable location that is warm
- Have a glass of wine or other refreshment to relax your inhibitions
- Collect a few foreplay accessories and have them available to use
Additional rules for this version of Strip Poker:
- If you lose all your chips, your forfeit is to perform the next activity on the list
- Your partner has the option to remove your cloths from you or just watch
- Your lover is allowed to caress, fondle, kiss and lick any newly exposed erogenous zones
- Cross off the list item and redistribute the chips evenly for the next round
Play until you cross your last item off the list. If you lose your chips again, your partner wins their sexual favor.
Note that some penalties are actually rewards too. How you phrase them makes all the difference – sometimes you’ll do something for your partner and for others you’ll allow them to do something to you. For example:
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Massage your cock with my breasts – Let you tease my tits with your dick
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Perform cunnilingus for you – Spread my legs and let you lick my pussy
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Give you a sensual spanking – Bend over your knee and let you spank me
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Pleasure you with a butt plug – Allow you to use a butt plug on me
Write your foreplay forfeits or sexual favors in a way that offers your partner something they want while receiving pleasure for yourself as well.
For a slightly different variation, take a look at Pleasure Poker. It includes on online form with sample foreplay and sex play activities. Poker for Lovers is a game you can buy that comes with chips labeled with sexy ideas you can bet with.
Add Strip Poker to your collection of couples games and heat up the action in your love life. Enjoy playing with each other. If you have any other sexy rules to share, please leave a comment. We would also like to hear about your experiences playing this game or any enhancements you add to it.
Chess & Checkers – Strip and Foreplay Games for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Chess and checkers are two of the most common board games – almost every body has one or the other laying around the house. They are excellent games to play as a couple on a quiet afternoon or evening while having a glass of wine together. But suppose you want to spice them up a bit. You’re feeling a little naughty and want to add a few sexy twists to the rules. And your partner’s game for some adult fun too.
Well, you could go the simple route: agree to strip an item of clothing for each piece taken or just decide on a sexual favor for winning or forfeit for losing. As a strip game, you’ll end up stripping each other fairly fast. You can then request various foreplay activities for each piece taken as you continue to play naked. It’s quick and dirty fun you can make up as you go … when you’re in a hurry to get to the sex part.
When you have a bit more time on your hands, try to delay your stripping and foreplay just a little longer. Make your intimate time together last as you build the erotic tension and anticipation. You want erotic rules that require some skill to get to the good stuff. You want to give each other a challenge – create a sense of excitement. Feel the thrill of competing with each other as you savor every move that leads to your ultimate climax. Let’s explore a few more creative rule ideas for erotic chess and checkers.
Sex Checkers – Strip and Jump for Joy
Rather than just calling the pieces men, let’s add a little flair to the game and give it an erotic flavor. Refer to the pieces as men and women (guys/gals, ladies/gents, studs/sluts or what ever suits your fancy) – you will be “jumping” each other. Also, when promoting a piece, turn them into kings and queens or any other terms that fits your theme.
Play like regular checkers or your own special variation but use these additional rules:
- if you jump multiple men/women in a single turn, receive a foreplay bonus
- if you jump a king or queen, receive a foreplay bonus
- if you jump a king or queen with a non-royal piece, your partner must strip an article of clothing
- if you jump the last man/woman, you receive a foreplay bonus for winning the game
You can use any means you want to come up with the foreplay bonus activities. For example, use erotic dice or foreplay cards – previous posts showed how you can make your own. Play best 3 out of 5 games to determine who wins a sexual reward.
Here are two other erotic rules you can use to enhance the game even more:
- Use sticky labels to assign each piece a body part (hand, leg, lips, pussy, cock, foot, butt, etc.). When you jump a piece, you must use the body part of the jumper to stimulate the jumped body part
- Add a really naughty twist and include dirty talk in the game. Use sticky labels to give each piece a name of someone you know. When you jump a piece you must also describe the two people doing something nasty together
Erotic Chess – Queens Gone Wild
In this game, you give the queen your special attention. Play with your queen right and your lover will strip and pleasure you. And, like many women, in this game your queen gets to play again and again. She won’t give up until you’re both satisfied. Your ultimate goal is to mate the king. But when you play more with your queen, you’ll both be rewarded with great sex.
Your queen is the focus of this foreplay game. When a queen takes a piece, you’re rewarded with delightful pleasures. When a queen is taken, even more fun takes place. Queens can come again and again – for a price. When your lovely queen is captured, you pay a ransom to get her back in the game. Just strip an article of clothing and get your naughty queen on the board ready for more.
Create a list of foreplay activities to be performed when a Queen takes a piece and when a piece takes a Queen (each possible combination). Also write down a list of sexual favors or fantasy rewards. Match these to each piece that can take the King to finish the game (unfortunately the king only comes once). Include a king takes king option since stalemates are not allowed in this version of the game.
Use the standard chess rules with the following erotic twists:
- You must move out of check unless you’re in check mate in which case you must still make a move with the King before it is taken
- When your queen is taken:
- Remove an item of clothing if you have any left
- Your partner replaces the queen anywhere on your half of the board
- Pleasure your lover based on how your queen was taken
- When a King is finally taken, the winner receives a sexual reward based on which piece did the deed
You can use erotic dice or foreplay cards in this game too but knowing what activity goes with each event can lead to some interesting and strategic play.
Add a dirty talking element to the game. Imagine the queen fooling around with each man/woman on the board searching for an elusive orgasm. Whenever you take a queen or use your queen to take another piece, you must describe a sexual act the two are performing. Make it different each time building up to some really kinky ideas that may just be part of your own fantasies. Include a few theatrical fake orgasms when certain pieces take the queen.
Click on the titles above to get more detailed rules. Also see the editable templates you can fill in and print off. Please share your ideas for erotic versions of chess or checkers that you play. We would also like to here your experiences playing these games for couples – let us know if you like them or how they can be improved.
Erotic Monopoly | Sex Monopoly | Adult Monopoly – A Sex Game for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
You loved it as a kid but you’re all grown up now. The board game is sitting in your closet – you know you want to play it. Can it really be as exciting to play as you remember? As an adult, you have more interesting types of play in mind but … if only there was a way to get your sexy partner playing both types of games with you at the same time. A way to mix together fun game play with exciting foreplay that leads to amazing sex…
Like many people, you’ve thought of how to make a sexy adult Monopoly game. A board game that starts off innocently enough at first then, as the game heats up, you raise the stakes. Maybe it begins by accepting an article of clothing instead of rent or special penalties when you are sent to Jail. Or maybe you agree on a sexual favor for the winner. There are all kinds of spicy twists you can make to the rules when you want to stimulate your love life with erotically charged fun. Combine the rush of an intensely competitive game with the thrill of exciting sex play. Include foreplay activities with intimate and sensual pleasuring and you’ve got yourself an instant bedroom game. Want to play?
Let’s take a quick look at a few erotic Monopoly options:
Erotic Monopoly for Couples
Here is a sexy adaptation of the classic game that allows you to buy happiness in the form of physical stimulation. Rather than renting houses, you build pleasure parlors and get paid for your special services. Perform sensual activities when your partner lands on your property and pays the appropriate fee. Each side of the board corresponds to a sex district where different types of pleasuring can be obtained. As the value increase with property improvements, so does the intensity and quality of foreplay. You win when your partner has no money to pay for love and must agree to your sexual demands. All you need is a list of foreplay activities that you both enjoy – there’s an editable PDF template you can download, fill in and print.
Frisky Business Game
TDC Games produced a Make Your Own Opoly Board Game
Strippopoly
This adult themed Monopoly variation is based on buying and selling sex websites. It offers stripping, kinky dares and other types of naughty play. If you want to heat up your party, Strippopoly will definitely get your hot friends excited. You may even get to see more of them (not just return visits either). Rules are available for threesome play but a few changes are required to make it a fun bedroom game for couples. If you have the game but want a bit more foreplay mixed in with the stripping, take a look at the CyberSexOpoly transformation kit. The downloadable package expands on the sex website theme and adds new game play elements. To gain a sex monopoly in cyber space, you buy, sell and trade pornographic websites while performing special erotic services to get your business going. As you gain control of more internet sex sites, you can charge more. And the more money you get the more erotic treats you can enjoy.
With a bit of imagination, you can turn any ordinary game into an opportunity for erotic entertainment and even great sex. And, with sex at stake, you both win every time. Take a look at the games listed above for inspiration. Playing any couples games together is time well spent – “couples that play together stay together” is great advice to keep your relationship filled with fun and happiness.
Hope you enjoy these adult Monopoly variations. If you would like to share other ideas for erotic Monopoly games that you play, please leave a comment.
Dice Strip Game – Rolling Together In or Out of Bed
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Erotic dice make some of the easiest bedroom games to play. It’s as simple as rolling the dice and performing an action. You can play sexy dice games almost anywhere. Rolling dice together can have you rolling into bed with each other amazingly fast. But sometimes you want to play your games a little longer. You want something with a touch of strategy and cunning – couples games that get your competitive juices flowing.
There are times when you want to prolong the anticipation of great sex with more foreplay. To build your excitement as you slowly strip each other naked – teasing and tantalizing each other with naughty pleasures until you can’t resist each other any longer. You want a simple strip game that mixes in different types of mental and physical pleasuring. A foreplay game that isn’t too complicated, is quick to setup and doesn’t have too many pieces to get in the way of your fun.
We’ve gone through some ways to make your own sexy dice games – Get Lucky with Frisky Dice. Let’s explore how another regular dice game can be transformed into an erotic variation that mixes in luck, strategy and foreplay. And of course we’ll include stripping too.
Drop Dead is an exciting dice game for any number of players. The objective is to obtain the highest total score rolling 5 dice to start with. If you roll any 2′s or 5′s (hot numbers), you score nothing and must remove those dice from your next roll. Continue rolling and totaling your score until all your dice have been stripped away – you drop dead.
This might not seem like the basis of a sexy foreplay game. But notice that dice are being stripped away – why not give players an option to keep their points (hot numbers included) if they choose to strip instead. You can get lucky or you can get naked.
Another problem with the original game is that you could lose all your dice on the very first roll. We want the game to last a little longer than that and we want to mix in some foreplay activities too. So, consider:
- Rather than removing all the dice with a hot number (2,5), just remove one if you choose not to strip off an article of clothing to save it
- If you choose to strip a die instead of your clothing, you will be at a disadvantage so let’s reward this option (accepting no points and losing a die) with mutual pleasuring
- Always keep one die but play for a specified number of turns – near the end you may still have clothes on but may opt to strip and score a 5 if you think you can still win
With every roll of the dice you have the chance of rolling a 2 or 5. You will then need to make a choice: strip your dice or your clothing. Unless you’re naked of course, then you must strip your dice.
Now for the foreplay – you want a variety of different activities that get more intimate and explicit as you progress in the game. We can use your remaining dice to determine a random foreplay activity. Consider, the first activity will occur after you strip one die leaving you with 4 dice – a total of 24 (4×6) possible values. You can create a numbered list of 24 pleasuring activities that map to the number you roll.
Note that as you strip away more dice, your range of possible values is reduced. In fact you have a higher chance of hitting lower values once you’re further into the game (with less clothing most likely). Knowing this, lower values should map to more intimate or intense foreplay activities.
You can play for any number of rounds you want. 24 is a good number since it corresponds to the number of foreplay activities in your pleasuring list. Add score boxes next to each item and you have an instant scoring sheet.
Finally, you want to have a prize for the winner – a sexual favor or fantasy come true. Who ever has the highest score wins the reward agreed upon at the start of the game.
For full rules see: Dice Strip Game – Get Lucky or Get Naked! There is also an editable PDF template you can download, fill in and print out.
Hope you enjoy this quick and easy strip game for couples. We’d love to know what you think of it and your experience playing it. Please leave a comment to share your ideas.
Intimate Questions – A Relationship Game for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Whether you’re just starting to date or you’re in a long term relationship, couples need to talk with each other more. We need the emotional connection you get when expressing your thoughts and feelings to someone who actively listens and cares. Intimate conversations with the person we love give us a deeper understanding of each other’s desires, fears, hopes and dreams. Although we may feel vulnerable revealing intimate secrets about ourselves, sharing and exploring sensitive subjects together builds trust in your relationship and strengthens the bond with your partner.
A friend of mine is currently trying to find a woman to start a relationship with. He is exploring online dating but he expressed a common frustration. It’s actually the same kind of problem couples in long term relationships experience when they think they know each other:
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“What do I talk about?”
Most online dating sites attempt to get couples communicating online first, then via phone calls then in person. When you think about it, married couples are in a similar situation when either one is away for some reason – they can only communicate via phone or email. It can actually be liberating since many people can express themselves more openly this way. You may feel freer to discuss more sensitive and intimate subjects like love and sex. It’s an excellent opportunity to explore new interests and discuss creative ways to spice up your relationship.
But the question still remains: What do you talk about? Also, how do you bring up more sensitive subjects that you want to explore but are either too shy or afraid to talk about? Here is a simple relationship game I suggested to my friend. Buy a book on relationships, romantic ideas or even a sex guide. While on a phone date suggest playing a game and describe these simple rules:
- Inform your partner about a book you have or let them select from a short list
- Ask for a number between 1 and the number of pages in the book
- Scan the page and read a section you find interesting or describe a picture
- They then ask you a provocative question related to what you read
- You answer the question and discuss the response then ask your own question
Your questions may end up being funny, intimate or serious. Some may even make you squirm in your seat as you face your own thoughts and feelings. Here are some benefits of using the book as the basis of your intimate questions:
- You don’t control the topics so when sensitive subjects do come up you don’t need to censor yourself
- You will come across subjects you may conveniently avoid even thinking about but are important
- By playing the game, you are both in a more open frame of mind and ready to discuss sensitive ideas
The book provides the context around your discussion and may even provide more information or resources to help explore it in more detail.
I recommended the book 237 Intimate Questions Every Woman Should Ask a Man
Here are some other sources of information to stimulate your question and answer sessions:
- 1000 Questions for Couples
- 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets
- The Guide to Getting It On!
- 302 Advanced Techniques for Driving a Man Wild in Bed
- 227 Ways to Unleash the Sex Goddess Within
- 1001 Ways to Be More Romantic Than Ever
Please use my affiliate links if you are interested in purchasing any of these products.
This relationship game for couples is great for when you want more intimate ideas to talk about on the phone. They are even better when you are together in a playful or romantic mood. Play it as a bedroom game – building your emotional connection while thinking and talking about erotic ideas can lead to some amazing sex.
One caution: when sharing secret thoughts and details with each other, start slow as you increase your levels of trust in each other. Keep the questions light hearted and focus on relationship building questions rather than any subtle or implied accusations. Also listen intently to your partner with an open mind – you are playing this game to better understand each other and develop a deeper emotional connection.
We look forward to hearing about your experience playing this relationship game or any fun & interesting questions you have asked your partner. Please leave a comment to share with other couples.
True True Lie – Wild Couples Game for Erotic Fun
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
I just finished watching the movie True True Lie
The basics of the game are fairly straight forward: one person tells three statements about themselves – two truthful and one lie in any order – and another player is selected to correctly identify which is the lie. If they guess wrong a forfeit must be paid. The movie had a scene with three women and three guys playing it as a strip game. In one very erotic scene, it was mentioned that they were in the sexual part of the game but did not elaborate on the subtleties of the rules. With the drinks and the hot seductive talk, wild sex was definitely the ultimate reward.
Let’s explore some possible rules in more detail so that you can play this game yourself with your partner or a group of friends.
- Players sit around a circle with men and women across from each other. Each round, randomly pair up two people with one designated as the speaker and the other the listener. In the movie, they spun a knife (yikes) but you may prefer a spin-the-bottle or spin-the-vibrator technique (a glass dildo works great too). The two people it lines up with are selected and the person pointed to tells their tales. This works when matching up couples but you may want to rotate the pairing when playing with a group of friends. If playing with just the two of you, alternate roles.
- The True, True, Lie statements told need to be about yourself. Depending on how comfortable every one is, you may want to start with relatively tame tales leaving the juicy stuff until later in the game. The other players may laugh, giggle or even make encouraging comments but are not allowed to give anything away if they know the truth – you want to get everyone involved in the fun. Number the statements first, second, third as you say them so that supporting comments and discussion don’t confuse things.
- Agree on the specific forfeit before you start each round. You can set it up with just a penalty for not guessing the lie correctly or you can include a reward for getting it right. For example, make it a strip game. If you guess the lie correctly the player telling the tales removes an article of clothing otherwise you do. Later you can introduce sexy dares or sexual favors. Be sure to agree on the stakes first – your naughty negotiation encourages you to think and talk dirty which adds to the fun.
- When telling your tales, your goal is to convince the other players that one of your truths is a lie while your lie is the truth. Be misleading and seductively devious in what and how you reveal things about yourself. I really liked the “I’m not wearing any panties” line in the movie. You can start with any topic naughty or nice but as you get more into the game, agree to switch the subject to a more sexual theme. Maybe agree on the subject matter for a certain number of rounds such as locations you’ve had sex, sex when you were younger, sexual preferences (techniques, positions, sex toys), wild sexual experiences, role play adventures, fantasies, etc. Or roll dice each round to choose a topic from a list.
- Finish the game when ever you choose. There are no real winners or losers – having fun is the goal. However, if this game leads to frisky foreplay and wild sex, you all win.
One caution – when playing truth or dare type games, lying about the lies defeats the purpose of having fun. Revealing things about yourself can make you feel a little vulnerable but thrilling at the same time. Be selective in what you are willing to say especially in a new relationship – build up to more personal disclosures as you mutually discover more about each other.
Not all lies or truths can be verified easily but as seen in the movie, sometimes the proving part can be extremely erotic too. In general, you need to trust each other and go with the flow of the game. Pick rewards and forfeits you basically want to do anyway – the game is just giving you a good reason.
If you know of any rules that I have missed or have ideas for further improvements, please leave a comment for others to read. Opinions on the movie are also welcome.
Here are two other adult party games that will get you thinking and talking about sex and each other: I’ve Never and Dirty Minds – check them out.
Sexy Card Games – Make Your Own Rules
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Sexy card games make some of the best bedroom games for couples. You can play them almost anywhere. All you need is a deck of cards, a frisky imagination and a playful partner. Take any one of your favorite card games, add a few erotic rule enhancements and mix in some foreplay activities. Presto – you’ve made yourself a personalized sex game for two.
It’s not magic or rocket science. Once you get the hang of a few design ideas, you can quickly and easily come up with sexy new rules for your card games. Surprise your partner with your own erotic ideas or get them involved in the fun and design a sex game together. You can make your sexy rule changes simple or as elaborate as you desire. You can even change the rules together as you play the game – start slow and increase the stakes after each round of play.
Here are a few types of rule enhancement ideas you can use to transform regular card games into foreplay favorites:
- Agree on a sexual favor or reward for the overall game winner
- List various foreplay activities to be performed after each round
- Define erotic penalties for losing a round or the game
- Map certain accomplishments with sexual treats (reward matches difficulty)
- Use the card that wins a hand to determine a foreplay activity
- Set certain foreplay activities to be performed at specific point levels
- Assign values to various sexual activities so they can be bet as markers
- Match specific game events to different pleasuring activities
You can easily create a strip game like strip poker by having the loser of each round remove an article of clothing. It’s also fairly straight forward to agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for winning the game. But you can make your sexy card games even more fun by adding in a range of other intimate and daring sexual activities.
Consider that there are 13 card values, 26 colored card values (red & black) and 52 suited card values. Mix in the Jokers for extra special play. Each of these cards can be mapped to a foreplay activity or sexual reward. You can even create his & her versions of each activity – be as romantic, wild or kinky as you want. Many card games involve certain events where you can identify a special card that was played – use it to determine an activity to be performed. For example:
- Crazy Eights: the suit can be changed by playing a card of the same value
- Poker: highest card making the win (King high, pair of twos, 3 Queens, etc.)
- War: matching cards that cause the tie break situation
- Memory: card matches discovered (reward same color or opposite colors only)
- Go Fish: card matches that you request from your partner
Be selective on which events warrant a reward or penalty – skill and luck should play a part in getting what you want. For inspiration, check out our bedroom game variations.
To help you create your own sexy card games, here are four editable PDF templates you can download, fill in and print:
Create a list of sexy activities in a word processor or spreadsheet. Use this list to copy/paste ideas into the templates. Use either one for a value based list, a red and black template for a color based list or all four for even more variety. When ever you come across a new idea, add it to your list and integrate it into your bedroom games.
Once you have one or more of these sexy idea templates filled out, you can use it to play the easiest sex game of all: shuffle the cards then alternate flipping a card and performing the action. Play with XXX cards for added visual stimulation.
Always keep your mind open for new ways to make the couples games you play more interesting. When you weave your erotic ideas with the style of games you like to play, you can create very satisfying bedroom games that keep your sex life exciting. Be sure to give your game a sexy and suggestive name that fits your playful intentions – make it special and have fun with each other.
I hope you enjoy designing and playing your very own sexy card games. If you have your own sexy card game design ideas you would like to share, please leave a comment. We would also like to receive your feedback on any couples games that you play.
