Creative Couples Games for Better Sex in Your Love Life
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Is sexual boredom the proverbial elephant in your bed? Routine, vanilla sex can become a BIG problem most couples just want to ignore. We all hope it’ll get better like it used to be. Great sex is extremely important to your relationship. With a bit of creativity, you can easily get the sizzle back in your love life.
So fire up your creative energy and sexual desire – choose to be a dragon in your pleasure den and chase boredom out of your bedroom. With a simple creativity technique, you’ll discover how to heat up the passion and lust in your relationship and become a more exciting lover. Together, you can satisfy your cravings for novel sexual thrills and erotic adventure. It’s time to step out of your comfort zone to try something fresh and experience new tantalizing pleasures for both your mind and body.
Great sex is not just physical. We all need to stimulate our emotions and our imagination. Everyone wants the thrill of doing something wild, naughty and new. Even if you think you’ve tried everything before, try them again but add a twist. For instance, the missionary position is an old favorite for most couples. It’s intimate and comfortable in bed. Now try it on the front lawn in the morning dew – just a little more exciting.
One of the easiest ways to come up with something new and different is to randomly combine multiple ideas. Then see how you can make them work together. You’ll be amazed how your mind can take seemingly weird combinations and make sense of them. Even if the ideas appear totally unrelated, give it a chance and they will trigger new thoughts you can use. Let’s get your creative juices flowing so you can surprise each other with novel ideas that will reinvigorate your love life.
To start this couples game, consider that elements of great sex can be grouped into six categories:
- Sensual Accessories: think of your drawer full of sex toys – do you use the vibrator, glass dildo or butt plug tonight? How about lingerie or a costume – lacy, silky, leather or latex? Do you break out the bondage equipment tonight? How many pleasuring accessories do you have in your drawer, closet or refrigerator?
- Settings & Themes: location, style, mood, fantasy and role play. Your sexual desire can range from a sensual massage one day to a wild quickie in an elevator the next. Will you make love in bed, on the kitchen table, on the stairs or the back seat of a car? Will she role play as a French maid, an escort or a dominatrix?
- Foreplay Ideas for Him: there are so many pleasure points to focus on besides the obvious one of course. How many male hot spots and stimulation techniques can you think of?
- Foreplay Ideas for Her: think of using your lips, tongue, fingers and other body parts to lovingly caress and sensually explore all her luscious curves. How many of her erogenous zones have you pleasured recently? Are you missing or neglecting any?
- Sex Play Activities: sex play may involve multiple positions as you build arousal – it’s more than just intercourse. There are so many imaginative positions and variations to experiment with. Manual and oral pleasuring also adds to the fun.
- The Climax: consider how you will finish your sex session. What position or activity will result in orgasm – hand job, vibrator, intercourse, oral or anal sex? Will you both drift off to sleep, wash up for work or try to rev up for more?
With your partner, create a list of ideas for each category. Create separate lists if you like. Search through you closets, drawers and all around the house for sexy items you could play with. List all the sex positions, role play characters, fantasy scenarios, locations, etc., that you can imagine. If you need an extra source of inspiration, flip through some sex books.
Once you come up with your lists of naughty ingredients, you need a way to randomly choose a few for your erotic recipe. You could write them on slips of paper and pick them from a bowl. Or number each item and pick them by rolling dice or random number generators online. Just remember to keep each grouping separate. By mixing and matching an idea from each group together, you’ll have all the elements required for a night of frisky fun.
Flip a coin to see who goes first. Starting with the first category, randomly pick one of the ideas. Then alternate picking from each group until you both have 3 ideas each. Now the fun part – brainstorm a creative sex scenario to perform that incorporates all six ideas together. Then let the ideas lead you to some amazing sex experiences.
A fun twist is to choose the list of ideas in the morning then go off separately and work out your own variation for the evening. Write out a fantasy story line with all the juicy details then swap notes. See how close your ideas are then pick one to play out. You could also try to merge the two scenarios.
Keep the lists handy for more creative love games later. You can also randomly select a few yourself and surprise your partner with wild combinations of pleasure possibilities. It’s really that easy. Sex doesn’t have to be spontaneous. With planned random sex and a little imagination, you’ll enjoy more creative loving. Give it a whirl. Your sex life will never be the same again – it’ll be much more fun. Just remember, with all your bedroom games, leave your lover satisfied but always wanting more.
Creative sex sounds great but I can imagine what you’re thinking – you’d rather be making love instead of writing long lists of erotic ideas to choose from. Well, as they say, “There’s an App for that!” Available for the iPhone and iTouch, iLoveRandomSex gives you the sexy ideas and randomizes them for you too. Inspire your erotic creativity and start having better sex in your love life. Join the discussion and get more frisky ideas on the Random Sex blog.
Arabian Nights Fantasy Roleplay Games for Couples
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The 1001 Arabian Nights stories have fueled many exotic fantasies involving treasure, power, temptation and seduction all wrapped in a veil of erotic mystery and intrigue. It’s easy to imagine palace life as a rich and powerful sultan, a rebellious princess, an obedient harem girl or even a submissive royal slave. You can spice up your fantasy with unique customs, fanciful garments, sultry music and intoxicating sensations of smell, taste and sight. Mix in some magic genies and you have all the ingredients for a wild adventure in a far off land. There are many types of dress up games for couples you can explore in this enchanted dream world.
To make this fantasy experience exceptional, get some accessories and prepare an exotic setting. You can create an oasis of pleasure in your bedroom using:
- Silk or satin lingerie – long and flowing robes or gowns
- Collection of colorful silk scarves
- Sheets or material draped from the ceiling to form a tent
- Exotic music – soft and flowing or pulsating with excitement
- Incense and candles or lamps
- Bowls of sensual food – fruit, chocolate, honey, oysters
- Wine or some other refreshing drink
- Persian carpets or throw rugs
- Scented or flavored massage oil
- Costume jewelry – nipple and body jewelry if you desire
- Pillows – lots and lots of throw pillows
Erotic, Arabian style costumes can also help set the mood and enable you to more easily get into character.
Wicked Temptations has a great collection to choose from.
It can be an erotic thrill making love surrounded by enchanting decorations or just wearing the costumes while having sex. But you can spice up your bedroom games even more with a simple story line to roleplay. Here are a few ideas to inspire your Middle Eastern style dress-up games for couples:
- You’re a Sultan reclining on a mound of pillows and decide you want some erotic entertainment. Clap three times to signal your harem or slave girl to enter – your every wish is her command. The veiled temptress dances seductively as she reveals all her charms. She pampers you with pleasure – succulent fruit, a sensual massage and what ever else you desire.
- You’re the Queen of the Nile and you’re feeling frisky. You take exquisite pleasure teasing your royal guards during inspection – one slip and they could be punished severely. As you whet your appetite, you come across a guard with impressive features – can he satisfy your hunger or will your regular servant be called to fulfill your desires? Or maybe you want them all.
- You’re a Harem girl kidnapped or rescued by the Prince of Thieves. Is he the ruthless bandit you’ve heard stories about or the freedom fighter that deserves your gratitude? What will you have to do to avoid being sent back or sold into slavery?
- You are both slaves and have been selected to entertain a royal audience with … public sex. And this better not be a short sex show! Dancing, stripping, kissing, licking and fornicating must all be done to the rhythm of the music. If you’re good, one or both of you will become sex servants otherwise a worse fate awaits.
- You’re a slave (male or female) up for auction and being inspected by potential buyers. How much will you go for and for what purpose? Mysterious voices call out bids from the darkness – some comment on how you will be used. A sex slave for one of the buyers seems to be the best option to hope for.
- When you polish an intricately designed bottle you just found, a sexy, magic genie appears before you. Freed from the bottle they are yours to command – every wish, every desire can be yours – but there are certain rules and conditions. The genie has been trapped for many years and is extremely horny – sexual energy fuels their magic powers. If you want something big, you’ll have to work for it.
- You’re a princess searching through the palace when you discover a special chamber. A glowing, crystal wand captures you attention – it’s a ceremonial glass dildo used by the high priest to deflower sacrificial virgins. An overwhelming lust takes over as you begin to masturbate with it. In the throes of passion, a cryptic message appears in your mind. You utter the secret incantation releasing the G-spot Genie. With his magic hands, he completes your pleasuring when ever you need him.
To further enhance your roleplay games, prepare ahead of time:
- Practice various Kama Sutra
and Tantric Sex techniques
- Watch Arabian themed movies with lavish costumes and sets
- Explore erotic and historic art depicting harem or palace life
- Read erotic novels involving harem or slave girls
harem or slave girls
- Take a Belly Dance
or Strip Tease course
Remember that many of the movies and books about harems and Arabian customs are fictional. Your roleplay games can be as wild and exotic as you want without worry about historical accuracy or political sensitivity – they are your fantasies to explore as a couple. Make up your own rules to suit your erotic bedroom games – repressed sexuality, rigid laws and strict social customs can all be adapted to enhance your roleplay experience. And when genies come to play, let your erotic imagination go completely wild.
And of course feel free to swap the conventional male and female roles in any of your fantasy roleplay games. The imaginary world you create for your bedroom games is under your total creative control.
