Butterfly Tease Erotic Love Play for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
In the following video, you’ll discover how to unleash your erotic creativity and give your lover exquisite sensual pleasure. Using a few soft artist or calligraphy brushes, you’ll learn how to stimulate erogenous zones so they tingle in anticipation of your touch. Tease and tantalize your partner until they beg for orgasmic release. The Butterfly Tease is a powerful foreplay technique based on an ancient Chinese love game. Spice up your lovemaking and become a sensation in your bedroom tonight.
For more information, see the Frisky Foreplay article Brush With Bliss.
Also check out “Sexational Secrets – The Ultimate Guide for Erotic Know How” by Susan Crain Bakos. You’ll discover how to increase your pleasure and enjoy more intense orgasms with your partner. The Butterfly Tease is just one of many amazing lovemaking ideas for couples revealed in her book.
Please leave a comment and let me know how you liked the video and the foreplay tip. Get yourself some artist brushes and experience a truly incredible sensual pleasure tonight. It’s an erotic treat both you and your partner are sure to enjoy.
Frisky Foreplay Wild Lovemaking Games for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
If you’re looking for a lovemaking game with lots of fun foreplay ideas for couples, check out the Frisky Foreplay video:
Frisky Foreplay & Fooling Around Games
Dare to get out of your sexual comfort zone with these dirty dice games. Put the thrill back in your sex life. Be naughty tonight and get frisky right now.
Bet Your Foreplay – Strip Poker Rules for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
To really turn up the erotic heat in your private poker games for two, mix in sexual favors with your wager. Really special erotic treats are worth more chips. You can “Bet Your Ass” literally.
These rules assume you know the basics of poker play. Adapt to whatever variation you enjoy the most – Texas Hold’em works great with this couples game. This strip poker variation involves betting with chips to make the game more like the real thing. But it also allows you to bet with foreplay markers that represent chips. It slows down the stripping but mixes in more intimate play to build your excitement and stimulate your desire for each other.
Create a foreplay menu with a price list for various pleasuring activities. Write down a list of 10-20 sensual ideas each. Include a range of ideas from tender and loving to delightfully naughty or even kinky. Agree together on a price in chips for each foreplay item ranging from 5-50. Use these as special foreplay tokens or markers – pleasure promise notes that can be bet in combination with chips.
You can download, fill in and print the sample Frisky-Foreplay-Poker.pdf template.
Here are a few basic ideas to keep in mind before you begin (adapt as desired):
- You should each start with 4 or 5 pieces of clothing on
- Start with 50 chips each (give them any value you want)
- Play by normal Poker rules (any style you desire)
- Avoid nitty-gritty rules of official play – focus on hot fun
- Use no limit betting conventions – encourage all in play
- Alternate dealing and use small/big blinds or an ante
- Agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for the overall winner
- Play in bed or in a comfortable location that is warm
- Have a glass of wine or other refreshment to relax your inhibitions
- Collect a few foreplay accessories and have them available to use
Additional rules for this version of Strip Poker:
- If you go all in and lose all your chips, strip off an article of clothing
- If you’re already naked and lose all your chips, your partner wins the game
- Each time you strip, redistribute the chips evenly for the next round
- If you have the fewest chips, you can raise or call using a foreplay marker
- Use only one foreplay marker per hand – end further betting
- Once you play a foreplay marker, progress to showdown to see who wins
- If you lose a foreplay bet, you must perform it immediately
Other ideas:
- Use the FriskyBusinessCards.pdf template to create foreplay markers that you can bet in combination with poker chips (more info)
- Assign chip values to cards from other foreplay games and use them to bet
- Allow items to be double or triple bet to represent more time spent on a foreplay activity – assume 1-2 minutes for a single version
- Assign a price for each type of clothing you’re wearing – you’re allowed to buy/sell items to each other for more chips
- Allow the chip leader to “purchase” foreplay activities with chips at any time
- Pretend you’re high stakes players vying for millions of dollars – roleplay fantasy characters to add a spicy flavor to your game play
The foreplay marker concept gives you a way to add unending variety to your bedroom games. Just create a new set of sexual favors with different types of erotic ideas. It also gives you control over what you’re willing to do during the game. Initially, you may try going all in using just chips (it’s no big deal to strip off your outer clothing). But, as you shed more clothing and the game heats up, you’ll tend to bet more intense erotic activities to avoid losing all your chips (and maybe losing the game). Also, if you have a really good hand, you may want to bet something really naughty. Since you’re betting something your lover desires, they’re more likely to call your bet. Or they might think you’re luring them with temptation. This makes bluffing even more fun.
Note that foreplay activities are not always just about pleasuring your partner physically. Sometimes you’ll do something for your partner and other times you’ll allow them to do something to you. They may actually enjoy pleasuring you in certain ways. How you phrase the foreplay idea makes all the difference. For example:
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Massage your cock with my breasts – Let you thrust your dick between my tits
Lick your pussy until you purr – Spread my legs and let you lick my clit
Pleasure you with a vibrator – Watch as I pleasure myself with a glass dildo
Give you a sensual spanking – Bend over your knee and let you spank me
Pleasure you with an anal dildo – Allow you to use a butt plug on me
Write your foreplay rewards or sexual favors in a way that offers your partner something they want while receiving pleasure for yourself as well.
Also take a look at Pleasure Poker for a slightly different betting variation of strip poker for couples. Poker for Lovers is a game you can buy that comes with chips labeled with sexy ideas you can bet with.
Add Strip Poker to your collection of bedroom games and heat up the action in your relationship. Enjoy playing with your partner in and out of the bedroom. If you have any other sexy rules to share, please leave a comment. We would also like to hear about your experiences playing this game or any enhancements you add to it.
Strip Poker Rules for Your Bedroom Games
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
With all the interest in Poker on TV lately, it’s only natural that you would think of trying a game of Strip Poker with your lover. For couples, this classic strip game needs a few extra twists to make it more fun for two.
Almost everyone has heard of Strip Poker but few people really know the rules. Most just make them up. The basic rules go something like this:
- Deal a standard Draw Poker hand of 5 cards
- You can exchange up to 3 cards for new ones
- Show your hands – loser strips an item of clothing
- Play more hands until all but one player is naked
Some people include the following variations:
- Bet with chips – if you run out strip off your cloths to buy more
- Bet with truth or dares, double dares and clothing
- When you’re naked, replace stripping with sexy antics
Mix in some liquid encouragement with a group of friends and these versions of Strip Poker will easily heat up the party. There is not much of a game element to it – the fun and excitement come from watching your friends squirm as they undress and perform dirty dares. These rules might be okay for a good sized group of friends but for two players, you will get naked just a little too fast.
Although it’s fun to be "forced to stripî in front of your sex partner every now and again, the excitement wears off quick. You want to spice up this strip game with more foreplay to make it a hot bedroom game. You want to create sexual tension as you playfully build anticipation for wild sex with each other.
The game is also so much more fun when you have the chance to bet and bluff – reading each other’s body language to see what they might be holding. And, playing with poker chips just makes the game feel so much better too. Here are a few links that show you how to play strip poker as a foreplay game for couples.
- Bet Your Foreplay – bet with sexual favor markers and chips
- Frisky Forfeits – play for a list of sexy forfeits with a special climax
- Pleasure Poker – your pleasure comes from good hands
Try them all and adapt them to a style of play you both enjoy. You can also buy the Poker for Lovers game that has sex activities printed right on the chips.
Here are a few general ideas to make your strip poker games more enjoyable:
- You should each wear 4 or 5 pieces of easy to remove clothing
- Remove clothing with a sexy strip tease or let your partner do it
- Start with 50 chips each to keep things relatively simple
- Play by normal Poker rules (any style you desire)
- Avoid nitty-gritty rules of official play – focus on hot fun
- Use no limit betting conventions – encourage all in play
- Use small/big blinds or an ante – no holding back
- Agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for the overall winner
- Play in bed or in a comfortable location that is warm
- Have a glass of wine or other refreshment to loosen your inhibitions
- Collect a few sex toys and foreplay accessories – keep them handy
When you come up with foreplay activities or sexual favors during they game, remember that they are not always just about pleasuring your partner physically. Sometimes you’ll want to do something for your partner and other times you’ll let them to do something to you. They enjoy pleasuring you in certain ways too. Sometimes it’s more fun to give than receive. How you phrase the foreplay idea makes all the difference. Define your frisky rewards in a way that offers your partner something they want while receiving pleasure for yourself too.
Add Strip Poker to your collection of couples games and spice up your sex life. Have fun playing with your partner in and out of the bedroom. If you have any other rules for sexy card games, please leave a comment and share them with other readers. We would also like to hear about your experiences playing the game listed above or any enhancements you add to them.
Strip Poker Rules – Frisky Forfeits for Your Bedroom Games
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
This version of the strip game for couples leads you through a list of sexy forfeits with a special climax for the winner. These rules assume you know the basics of poker play – adapt to whatever variation you enjoy the most. Texas Hold’em works great with this bedroom game for two. This strip poker variation involves betting with chips to make the game more like the real thing. It slows down the stripping but mixes in more intimate play to build your excitement for each other.
Before the game, create a list of 10 foreplay activities each. You will go through the list from 1 to 10 as penalties when you lose all your chips. Start off slow and increase to more explicit sex play ideas. Mix in sequential removal of your cloths one piece at a time. Leave your last piece of clothing until near the end. Also define your foreplay activities (what you will do for your partner or what they can do to you) to match what you will not be wearing at the time. For example, no oral sex on you until after you strip your under wear.
You can download, fill in and print the sample Frisky-Strip-Poker.pdf template. Part of the fun is coming up with new erotic ideas to play for.
Here are a few basics to know before you begin (adapt as desired):
- You should each start with 4 or 5 pieces of clothing on
- Start with 50 chips each (give them any value you want)
- Play by normal Poker rules (any style you desire)
- Avoid nitty-gritty rules of official play – focus on hot fun
- Use no limit betting conventions – encourage all in play
- Alternate dealing and use small/big blinds or an ante
- Agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for the overall winner
- Play in bed or in a comfortable location that is warm
- Have a glass of wine or other refreshment to relax your inhibitions
- Collect a few foreplay accessories and have them available to use
Additional rules for this version of Strip Poker:
- If you lose all your chips, your forfeit is to perform the next activity on the list
- Your partner has the option to remove your cloths from you or just watch
- Your lover is allowed to caress, fondle, kiss and lick any newly exposed erogenous zones
- Cross off the list item and redistribute the chips evenly for the next round
Play until you cross your last item off the list. If you lose your chips again, your partner wins their sexual favor.
Note that some penalties are actually rewards too. How you phrase them makes all the difference – sometimes you’ll do something for your partner and for others you’ll allow them to do something to you. For example:
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Massage your cock with my breasts – Let you tease my tits with your dick
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Perform cunnilingus for you – Spread my legs and let you lick my pussy
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Give you a sensual spanking – Bend over your knee and let you spank me
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Pleasure you with a butt plug – Allow you to use a butt plug on me
Write your foreplay forfeits or sexual favors in a way that offers your partner something they want while receiving pleasure for yourself as well.
For a slightly different variation, take a look at Pleasure Poker. It includes on online form with sample foreplay and sex play activities. Poker for Lovers is a game you can buy that comes with chips labeled with sexy ideas you can bet with.
Add Strip Poker to your collection of couples games and heat up the action in your love life. Enjoy playing with each other. If you have any other sexy rules to share, please leave a comment. We would also like to hear about your experiences playing this game or any enhancements you add to it.
Dice Strip Game – Rolling Together In or Out of Bed
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Erotic dice make some of the easiest bedroom games to play. It’s as simple as rolling the dice and performing an action. You can play sexy dice games almost anywhere. Rolling dice together can have you rolling into bed with each other amazingly fast. But sometimes you want to play your games a little longer. You want something with a touch of strategy and cunning – couples games that get your competitive juices flowing.
There are times when you want to prolong the anticipation of great sex with more foreplay. To build your excitement as you slowly strip each other naked – teasing and tantalizing each other with naughty pleasures until you can’t resist each other any longer. You want a simple strip game that mixes in different types of mental and physical pleasuring. A foreplay game that isn’t too complicated, is quick to setup and doesn’t have too many pieces to get in the way of your fun.
We’ve gone through some ways to make your own sexy dice games – Get Lucky with Frisky Dice. Let’s explore how another regular dice game can be transformed into an erotic variation that mixes in luck, strategy and foreplay. And of course we’ll include stripping too.
Drop Dead is an exciting dice game for any number of players. The objective is to obtain the highest total score rolling 5 dice to start with. If you roll any 2′s or 5′s (hot numbers), you score nothing and must remove those dice from your next roll. Continue rolling and totaling your score until all your dice have been stripped away – you drop dead.
This might not seem like the basis of a sexy foreplay game. But notice that dice are being stripped away – why not give players an option to keep their points (hot numbers included) if they choose to strip instead. You can get lucky or you can get naked.
Another problem with the original game is that you could lose all your dice on the very first roll. We want the game to last a little longer than that and we want to mix in some foreplay activities too. So, consider:
- Rather than removing all the dice with a hot number (2,5), just remove one if you choose not to strip off an article of clothing to save it
- If you choose to strip a die instead of your clothing, you will be at a disadvantage so let’s reward this option (accepting no points and losing a die) with mutual pleasuring
- Always keep one die but play for a specified number of turns – near the end you may still have clothes on but may opt to strip and score a 5 if you think you can still win
With every roll of the dice you have the chance of rolling a 2 or 5. You will then need to make a choice: strip your dice or your clothing. Unless you’re naked of course, then you must strip your dice.
Now for the foreplay – you want a variety of different activities that get more intimate and explicit as you progress in the game. We can use your remaining dice to determine a random foreplay activity. Consider, the first activity will occur after you strip one die leaving you with 4 dice – a total of 24 (4×6) possible values. You can create a numbered list of 24 pleasuring activities that map to the number you roll.
Note that as you strip away more dice, your range of possible values is reduced. In fact you have a higher chance of hitting lower values once you’re further into the game (with less clothing most likely). Knowing this, lower values should map to more intimate or intense foreplay activities.
You can play for any number of rounds you want. 24 is a good number since it corresponds to the number of foreplay activities in your pleasuring list. Add score boxes next to each item and you have an instant scoring sheet.
Finally, you want to have a prize for the winner – a sexual favor or fantasy come true. Who ever has the highest score wins the reward agreed upon at the start of the game.
For full rules see: Dice Strip Game – Get Lucky or Get Naked! There is also an editable PDF template you can download, fill in and print out.
Hope you enjoy this quick and easy strip game for couples. We’d love to know what you think of it and your experience playing it. Please leave a comment to share your ideas.
Sexy Card Games – Make Your Own Rules
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Sexy card games make some of the best bedroom games for couples. You can play them almost anywhere. All you need is a deck of cards, a frisky imagination and a playful partner. Take any one of your favorite card games, add a few erotic rule enhancements and mix in some foreplay activities. Presto – you’ve made yourself a personalized sex game for two.
It’s not magic or rocket science. Once you get the hang of a few design ideas, you can quickly and easily come up with sexy new rules for your card games. Surprise your partner with your own erotic ideas or get them involved in the fun and design a sex game together. You can make your sexy rule changes simple or as elaborate as you desire. You can even change the rules together as you play the game – start slow and increase the stakes after each round of play.
Here are a few types of rule enhancement ideas you can use to transform regular card games into foreplay favorites:
- Agree on a sexual favor or reward for the overall game winner
- List various foreplay activities to be performed after each round
- Define erotic penalties for losing a round or the game
- Map certain accomplishments with sexual treats (reward matches difficulty)
- Use the card that wins a hand to determine a foreplay activity
- Set certain foreplay activities to be performed at specific point levels
- Assign values to various sexual activities so they can be bet as markers
- Match specific game events to different pleasuring activities
You can easily create a strip game like strip poker by having the loser of each round remove an article of clothing. It’s also fairly straight forward to agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for winning the game. But you can make your sexy card games even more fun by adding in a range of other intimate and daring sexual activities.
Consider that there are 13 card values, 26 colored card values (red & black) and 52 suited card values. Mix in the Jokers for extra special play. Each of these cards can be mapped to a foreplay activity or sexual reward. You can even create his & her versions of each activity – be as romantic, wild or kinky as you want. Many card games involve certain events where you can identify a special card that was played – use it to determine an activity to be performed. For example:
- Crazy Eights: the suit can be changed by playing a card of the same value
- Poker: highest card making the win (King high, pair of twos, 3 Queens, etc.)
- War: matching cards that cause the tie break situation
- Memory: card matches discovered (reward same color or opposite colors only)
- Go Fish: card matches that you request from your partner
Be selective on which events warrant a reward or penalty – skill and luck should play a part in getting what you want. For inspiration, check out our bedroom game variations.
To help you create your own sexy card games, here are four editable PDF templates you can download, fill in and print:
Create a list of sexy activities in a word processor or spreadsheet. Use this list to copy/paste ideas into the templates. Use either one for a value based list, a red and black template for a color based list or all four for even more variety. When ever you come across a new idea, add it to your list and integrate it into your bedroom games.
Once you have one or more of these sexy idea templates filled out, you can use it to play the easiest sex game of all: shuffle the cards then alternate flipping a card and performing the action. Play with XXX cards for added visual stimulation.
Always keep your mind open for new ways to make the couples games you play more interesting. When you weave your erotic ideas with the style of games you like to play, you can create very satisfying bedroom games that keep your sex life exciting. Be sure to give your game a sexy and suggestive name that fits your playful intentions – make it special and have fun with each other.
I hope you enjoy designing and playing your very own sexy card games. If you have your own sexy card game design ideas you would like to share, please leave a comment. We would also like to receive your feedback on any couples games that you play.
Make Your Own Couples Games – Get Lucky with Frisky Dice
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Want to mix up the variety in your sex life? Sometimes we get into a routine or pattern without even thinking about it. When you change the sequence or combination of foreplay in your bedroom games, you may discover new pleasure sensations that will get you even hotter for each other.
That’s where Frisky Dice come in – erotic dice combinations can be used to randomize the foreplay you enjoy. They can even be used to randomly select different sex positions, lovemaking locations, role playing ideas or even sex toys to play with. Even though you know the sex activities available, not knowing which ones or in what combination adds to the erotic anticipation and excitement.
For the following erotic dice game ideas, you will need two standard dice of different colors. This gives you 36 possible combinations (only 11 if the dice are the same color). Adapt the game designs for even more combinations using either more dice or using dice with more sides than 6. Essentially all you need to do is create a list of different activities and map them to the numbers on the dice. Then you each roll the dice in turn and perform the corresponding activity. One of the great things about making your own frisky dice is that you can design different sets of lists ranging from romantic to kinky – start off slow and change the lists when you are ready for more intense action.
Do Me Dice
You will need two lists one for each die color. Create one list with 6 actions (Do) and another list with 6 parts of your body (Me). Some samples are:
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Do: kiss, lick, suck, nibble, tickle, massage
Me: arms, back, neck, legs, chest, butt
When you roll the dice, your lover matches up the corresponding action and body part then pleasures you as indicated. It can be a little tricky to choose actions that work with all the body parts especially when you attempt to work in more exotic foreplay pleasures. In some cases, think of the body part as a general region. For instance, arms could mean fingers, hand, wrist, elbow, etc. Also add a rule addition that the technique used must be slightly different each time if you get repeats.
For more fun, consider assigning sex positions (doggie, standing, oral, missionary, spoon, anal) to one list and locations (bedroom, kitchen, basement, outside, stairway, living room) to the other.
Pleasure Picker
Rather than limiting yourself to simple actions and body regions, spend a little bit more effort and detail 36 different pleasuring activities. Since you won’t have to worry about strange combinations that don’t make sense, you are free to include a full range of foreplay techniques. Include some exotic foreplay ideas you secretly desire. Design the list so you have a complete menu of erotic delights to enjoy. You can even create separate his & hers lists together. Or, make up your ideas privately to surprise each other with your wanton wish list.
Here is an editable PDF file you can download, fill in and print out: Erotic Dice Template
Create multiple lists if you desire – give each one a suggestive title. Make up 6 and use a die to choose which list you use for your bedroom games.
For each foreplay activity, agree on a time limit (requirement) of say 30 seconds to a full minute. Give yourself a few minutes at least for each sex position. Consider using a third die of a different color to determine the time – number rolled times 10 seconds of foreplay or times 1 minute for sex play. Add a fourth colored die for location around your house to really heat up the fun and games.
If you like, include other rule additions such as:
- Roll a double and you get to roll again
- If you roll two doubles in a row, strip one article of clothing
- Set a time limit of 30-60 minutes
- Check off each one done and play until you do them all
Your Frisky Dice game lists can also be used to spice up other regular games that use dice. For example, when playing Monopoly and you land on your lover’s property with a house, pay the rent but also perform the foreplay activity corresponding to your roll. And, when you land on a property with a hotel, use a hotter sex activity list.
Buy erotic dice with pre-printed actions, body parts and sex positions or design your own. Either way, it’s easy to shake up your sex life with frisky dice games for couples.
If you want a ready made sex game using 3 dice combinations, download the Frisky Foreplay game. It has over 200 erotic ideas for each of you.
Please share your Do Me Dice lists or sample Pleasure Picker ideas for others to enjoy.
Spice Up Your Couples Games – Make Your Own Frisky Business Cards
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Discover how you can spice up the games you play together as a couple. Transform them into amazing bedroom games to rev up your sex drive. You can even crank up the heat on couples games you already own. Keep the same game play but add in your own foreplay ideas to suit your sex life – be as romantic or kinky as you want.
Many adult board games come with a collection of cards that contain various foreplay ideas or sexual activities to perform. Certain events (landing on specific locations or winning a round) allow you to pick a card and receive a sensual reward or erotic penalty. When you shuffle the deck of cards to start the game, you ensure that the sequence and combination of foreplay activities you enjoy are different every time you play. But what happens if the games you like to play don’t come with sexy activity cards? Or, the cards you do have are too stale or bland to satisfy your desires?
Well, all you need is a little erotic inspiration, a printer and some business card sheets that you can get in most office supply stores. These come perforated for easy separation – use the clean edge style for best results. Some packages even come with software so you can edit the layout and design for an entire sheet. You can also print on plain paper or card stock and cut them out yourself. Hint: if using plain paper, consider laminating it before cutting out the cards (round off the sharp corners slightly) – the plastic coating makes them durable and easier to shuffle.
Begin by brainstorming a list of exciting foreplay ideas with your partner (or surprise them with your own erotic imagination). Use the existing cards or sex guide books to kick start your ideas. Be sure to mix in a few tame foreplay activities among your more wild sex play ideas. And of course include some foreplay techniques or sex positions you really want to try. Sprinkle in use of your sex toys and other erotic accessories you have available. Come up with 40-60 ideas on paper or in a spreadsheet then enter them into your business card designs.
Here is an editable PDF template you can download, fill in and print:
The card design is setup to allow you to fill in a title and a main foreplay idea or sex game activity. There is also a third region for an extended foreplay tip or extra rules. Each region is optional and the two foreplay areas support multiple rows of text.
You can even put the cards in a hat and pick one out randomly each time you make love. Creatively mix the idea into your love play. Or secretly hide them around the house and play Hide & Sex – have your partner search for them and enjoy the activity when and where ever they find one. See if you can find them all before you ravish each other completely.
As you read or hear about new sexy ideas, add them to your list. This way you can keep your bedroom games fresh and exciting – you’ll never know when a kinky new idea will pop up in the game. You can even map your list to playing cards or dice combinations and use these to randomly select even more foreplay fun to enjoy.
If you want more hot ideas for your couples games, download a copy of the Frisky Foreplay Game. Play this erotic dice game by itself or use the 200+ foreplay ideas in your own bedroom games.
69 Foreplay Ideas to Make Your Own Bedroom Games for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Not everyone wants to visit a sex store to buy couples games. If you crave more spice in your love life, make your own bedroom games using dice or cards. Just write down a list of ideas and map them to the card or dice combinations. It’s easy to do and you can change the activities later to mix up your sex play even more.
There are many regular card and dice games you can play using your foreplay idea list. With a little imagination, you can make up special rule changes so you both get to sensually play with each other too. Many board games using dice can also be enhanced with foreplay events. If you are eager to get down to business, just roll the dice or pick a card to choose an activity to perform – new combinations of pleasure again and again.
To get you started, here is a list of 69 foreplay ideas you can use to make up your own bedroom games. Play any couples game for two and make up your own rules to enjoy each other.
- As sexy as you can, strip off one piece of clothing
- Slowly remove an article of clothing from your partner (your choice)
- Slow dance together for one song – great when you are naked
- Put on one item of lingerie or sexy clothing your lover chooses
- Standing, hug and kiss each other passionately (French kissing)
- Perform a lap dance to music while removing one item of clothing
- Describe in detail a raunchy sex scenario involving both of you
- Lightly stroke your lover’s face, lips, neck and ears with your finger tips
- Caress, kiss and lick up and back down your lover’s legs
- Tickle the back of your partner’s knee with the tip of your tongue
- Trace the major lines on your lover’s palm with the tip of your tongue
- Take your lover’s thumb in your mouth and caress it with your tongue
- Lick and suck each finger on one of your lover’s hand
- Lick your partner’s wrist at the pulse point – exhale hot breaths on it
- Standing, snuggle up behind your partner – caress and fondle them
- Lick your lover’s nipple then blow cool air on it – repeat
- Warm your lover’s nipple in your mouth then suck in cool air around it
- Read a short passage from an erotic novel aloud in a sexy voice
- Fast forward to a hot & steamy part in an erotic movie – watch one scene
- Tickle the back of your lover’s neck with the tip of your tongue
- Seductively describe in detail how you want to ravish your lover later
- Use an artist brush to swirl flavored lube on your lover’s nipples
- Pick an advanced sex position from a book to try out later
- Pick a random page in a sex guide and use the technique later in your sex play
- Place tender kisses all over your lover’s face
- Stroke and rub your partner’s nose with your nose
- Choose something from the refrigerator to smear on and lick off your lover
- Blow “raspberries” on your lover’s belly or other ticklish regions of their body
- Use your tongue to tickle your lover’s stomach – belly and sides
- Sensually lick flavored lube or liquor from your lover’s navel
- Softly whisper how hot and excited you are into your lover’s ear
- Tenderly stroke, caress and kiss an exposed part of your lover’s body
- Expose your bum and allow your lover to give you a sensual spanking
- Orally pleasure an exposed erogenous zone - Kiss, lick, suck and nibble it
- Perform a sensual, relaxing or erotic massage – your lover’s choice
- Apply hot breaths to warm your lover’s crotch
- Use your tongue to stroke out loving or sexy words on your lover’s back
- Use your finger tips to massage your lover’s head and neck
- Pretend to have a wild and intense orgasm – put on a sexy show
- Massage each of your lover’s toes using oil, cream or lube
- If exposed, oral pleasuring in any position your lover chooses
- Select a sex toy and describe how you will pleasure your lover with it
- Stimulate your lover with a sex toy (visual stimulation counts)
- Lightly drag your nails down your lover’s back in different patterns
- Use a feather to tickle your lover’s face, neck and ears
- Make up a fantasy scene involving your lover self pleasuring while you watch
- Write you a sex coupon involving dressing up or erotic use of clothing
- Choose a sexy outfit or accessory for your lover to wear while making love
- Look into your lover’s eyes as you suck one of their fingers and fondle them
- Massage and nibble on your lover’s butt cheeks
- Kiss, lick and play with your lover’s testicles
- Lightly tickle your lover’s tailbone and between their butt cheeks
- Pleasure your lover with a sex toy – flip a coin to determine who chooses
- Caress your lover’s bare feet with your bare feet
- Stimulate yourself by rubbing against your lover’s leg
- Take your lover’s nipple in your mouth and hum as you lick
- Lightly bite and nibble your lover’s buttocks
- Use your breasts to caress any exposed region of your lover’s body
- Kiss and nibble along your lover’s neck and shoulder from the back
- Kiss and lick your lover’s throat and under their chin
- With the tip of your tongue, lick along your lover’s collar bone
- Find and read aloud a few dirty jokes – use books or the internet
- Quickly draw a favorite sex position, activity or erotic image for your partner
- Look on the internet together for ‘erotic art’ and discuss what inspires you
- Use an ice cube & your tongue to cool then heat an exposed erogenous zone
- Use a vibrator to stimulate your partner’s neck, chest and nipples
- Describe a new location where you would like to have sex and how
- Lightly stroke your lover’s inner thighs, along the crease and over their hips
- Apply your lover’s favorite perfume or cologne on a different part of your body
While many of the above foreplay ideas are gender neutral, a few are geared more for the man or woman to perform while the other receives. Pick and choose ones you like, modify them or create your own. Add a time limit while performing these activities if you choose or let them play out until you are satisfied.
Have more fun, more pleasure and more sex while you improve your relationship with hot couples games in and out of the bedroom.
Please share some of your favorite foreplay ideas that you use in your couples games together.
