Everyone wants an exciting and satisfying sex life. One filled with erotic adventures, stimulating sensations, romantic intimacy and creative foreplay. You want to experience fun new emotional thrills that bring you closer together. You crave the exhilaration of going beyond the ordinary – exploring outside your comfort zone with a trusted, loving partner. You need to feel that rush of naughty excitement as you push past your inhibitions and free each other to indulge in new sensual pleasures. Discover how couples games can fulfill your desires and why you should play more.

If you want more excitement in your relationship, you know your partner does too. They may not show it but you know their passion is just waiting for the right spark. Sometimes we just need permission to unleash our secret sexual desires – that signal that it’s okay to be naughty, frisky and playful. Couples games are perfect ways to introduce something fun and new into your relationship without feeling awkward about asking for it. When you both play to win, anything goes.

If you want to play more couples games, here are a few reasons you can use to help encourage your partner to play too:

• Romantic games set the mood for intimate touching, caressing and kissing. Strengthen your emotional bond when you slow down, gaze in each others eyes and talk more about your love and life together. Experience more closeness with a romantic massage or a relaxing bubble bath for two. Increase your level of trust so you feel confident exploring new love making ideas together.
• Relationship games give you a chance to find out more about each other. Even in long term relationships, we all change and grow. Ensure you don’t drift apart. Discover new interests that you can enjoy together. Develop a better understanding of each other and what you both need in the relationship. As a reward (winner’s choice), do something completely new and challenging together.
• Strip games are usually simple rule add-ons to regular games people play. Being forced to slowly strip as part of the game can be very exciting even if you are in an existing sexual relationship. Start playing innocently at first to break the ice. Then slyly increase the stakes and build the erotic tension. Begin with clothing removal and once you are naked, progress to erotic dares or more intimate rewards.
• Bedroom games include more intimate sexual foreplay ideas. You know you are going to have sex but you want to spice up your routine with new foreplay tips and techniques. Foreplay games allow you to playfully delay sex while you arouse each other in new ways and combinations. Mix in special sex rewards or forfeits to really crank up the erotic heat in your bedroom.
• Roleplay games allow you to explore your secret fantasies. Pretending to be different characters enables you to do things you might not let yourself do – it’s all part of the act. Relive special moments or create new ones in different locations. You can keep these games simple using only your imagination to get into character or go a little more extravagant with costumes and props. Even if you break out laughing or feel embarrassed, you will share memories that will bring you closer together.
• Kinky games involve more unusual sexual antics. Exploring fetish or taboo sexual subjects together can be the ultimate in trust. Revealing your kinky desires may make you feel extremely vulnerable. But sharing these deeper thoughts and feelings can create a very strong bond between you. You may also just be curious and want to experiment.
• Erotic games are not strictly sexual but do have an adult theme. Sexual trivia and adult truth or dare games may be included here too. Play these kinds of games to see how your partner reacts to different ideas that come up. Gaining more sex knowledge and learning more about how your partner thinks can make you a better lover. And of course, just thinking about sex will tend to make you want it more too.
• Adult party games provide an exciting way to find out what your friends are doing in and out of bed. You may even discover a few new ideas to try out. You also get a new perspective on how other people think and feel about sex. Being aware of how they feel may allow you to view or express your own desires in a more positive way. 

Playing adult games and making love in novel new ways also keeps you feeling and thinking younger. Great sex is scientifically proven to enhance your health – mind and body. Laughing and playing together while having amazing sex is the prefect recipe to invigorate your love life. Play a couples game tonight and get wild & crazy in love all over again.

Remember, playing any game together with your partner is time well spent. Couples games involving sensual pleasure just make it even more fun.

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See Dirty Boggle for more details and optional rules for this hot and spicy word game for couples. Turn regular Boggle into your own naughty word game and inspire your sexual creativity. You’ll be amazed at all the wonderfully creative foreplay ideas you can come up with. Practice talking dirty as you think up ever more wild and sexy ideas for your partner to perform for your pleasure. Play it as a strip game that leads to even more frisky fun each round you play.

And if you ever want to learn the art of hot talk and seduction, check out the Ultimate Guide to Talking Dirty. Discover how to spice up your sex life in and out of bed with erotic talk.

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The video below provides a light hearted look at how many couples view sex toys in their relationship. It’s unfortunate that many people are still embarrassed about self pleasuring with or without sex toys especially when they’re in a relationship. Instead of exploring their true sexual nature together, they hide their sex toys even from the person they’re being physically intimate with. Of course, masturbation is still an important sexual outlet even while in a sexually satisfying relationship. But why not use any and all pleasure enhancement accessories you can to explore your full sexual potential with your partner as well.

Visit FriskyForeplay.com/vibratorideas and discover over 30 sexy ideas for using a vibrator together as foreplay. There’s even a creative sex game you can play with your lover. Learn new ideas to help make your orgasms more intense and pleasurable. Sex toys are great for self stimulation but they can be even more fun when used together in and out of the bedroom. Surprise your lover with a new sex toy for couples and explore creative new types of erotic pleasure together. You can dramatically spice up your sex life and improve your marriage when you gain the confidence to share your adult toys and sexual fantasies with the one you love.

Please leave a comment and tell us what you think about using sex toys alone or together with your partner.

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Frisky Foreplay & Fooling Around Games

Dare to get out of your sexual comfort zone with these dirty dice games. Put the thrill back in your sex life. Be naughty tonight and get frisky right now.

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Is sexual boredom the proverbial elephant in your bed? Routine, vanilla sex can become a BIG problem most couples just want to ignore. We all hope it’ll get better like it used to be. Great sex is extremely important to your relationship. With a bit of creativity, you can easily get the sizzle back in your love life.

So fire up your creative energy and sexual desire – choose to be a dragon in your pleasure den and chase boredom out of your bedroom. With a simple creativity technique, you’ll discover how to heat up the passion and lust in your relationship and become a more exciting lover. Together, you can satisfy your cravings for novel sexual thrills and erotic adventure. It’s time to step out of your comfort zone to try something fresh and experience new tantalizing pleasures for both your mind and body.

Great sex is not just physical. We all need to stimulate our emotions and our imagination. Everyone wants the thrill of doing something wild, naughty and new. Even if you think you’ve tried everything before, try them again but add a twist. For instance, the missionary position is an old favorite for most couples. It’s intimate and comfortable in bed. Now try it on the front lawn in the morning dew – just a little more exciting.

One of the easiest ways to come up with something new and different is to randomly combine multiple ideas. Then see how you can make them work together. You’ll be amazed how your mind can take seemingly weird combinations and make sense of them. Even if the ideas appear totally unrelated, give it a chance and they will trigger new thoughts you can use. Let’s get your creative juices flowing so you can surprise each other with novel ideas that will reinvigorate your love life.

To start this couples game, consider that elements of great sex can be grouped into six categories:

• Sensual Accessories: think of your drawer full of sex toys – do you use the vibrator, glass dildo or butt plug tonight? How about lingerie or a costume – lacy, silky, leather or latex? Do you break out the bondage equipment tonight? How many pleasuring accessories do you have in your drawer, closet or refrigerator?
• Settings & Themes: location, style, mood, fantasy and role play. Your sexual desire can range from a sensual massage one day to a wild quickie in an elevator the next. Will you make love in bed, on the kitchen table, on the stairs or the back seat of a car? Will she role play as a French maid, an escort or a dominatrix?
• Foreplay Ideas for Him: there are so many pleasure points to focus on besides the obvious one of course. How many male hot spots and stimulation techniques can you think of?
• Foreplay Ideas for Her: think of using your lips, tongue, fingers and other body parts to lovingly caress and sensually explore all her luscious curves. How many of her erogenous zones have you pleasured recently? Are you missing or neglecting any?
• Sex Play Activities: sex play may involve multiple positions as you build arousal – it’s more than just intercourse. There are so many imaginative positions and variations to experiment with. Manual and oral pleasuring also adds to the fun.
• The Climax: consider how you will finish your sex session. What position or activity will result in orgasm – hand job, vibrator, intercourse, oral or anal sex? Will you both drift off to sleep, wash up for work or try to rev up for more?

With your partner, create a list of ideas for each category. Create separate lists if you like. Search through you closets, drawers and all around the house for sexy items you could play with. List all the sex positions, role play characters, fantasy scenarios, locations, etc., that you can imagine. If you need an extra source of inspiration, flip through some sex books.

Once you come up with your lists of naughty ingredients, you need a way to randomly choose a few for your erotic recipe. You could write them on slips of paper and pick them from a bowl. Or number each item and pick them by rolling dice or random number generators online. Just remember to keep each grouping separate. By mixing and matching an idea from each group together, you’ll have all the elements required for a night of frisky fun.

Flip a coin to see who goes first. Starting with the first category, randomly pick one of the ideas. Then alternate picking from each group until you both have 3 ideas each. Now the fun part – brainstorm a creative sex scenario to perform that incorporates all six ideas together. Then let the ideas lead you to some amazing sex experiences.

A fun twist is to choose the list of ideas in the morning then go off separately and work out your own variation for the evening. Write out a fantasy story line with all the juicy details then swap notes. See how close your ideas are then pick one to play out. You could also try to merge the two scenarios.

Keep the lists handy for more creative love games later. You can also randomly select a few yourself and surprise your partner with wild combinations of pleasure possibilities. It’s really that easy. Sex doesn’t have to be spontaneous. With planned random sex and a little imagination, you’ll enjoy more creative loving. Give it a whirl. Your sex life will never be the same again – it’ll be much more fun. Just remember, with all your bedroom games, leave your lover satisfied but always wanting more.

Creative sex sounds great but I can imagine what you’re thinking – you’d rather be making love instead of writing long lists of erotic ideas to choose from. Well, as they say, “There’s an App for that!” Available for the iPhone and iTouch, iLoveRandomSex gives you the sexy ideas and randomizes them for you too. Inspire your erotic creativity and start having better sex in your love life. Join the discussion and get more frisky ideas on the Random Sex blog.

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I just finished watching the movie True True Lie- a psychological thriller based around a very sexy Truth or Dare style party game. Of course bad things happen in the movie but the game looked like amazing fun for couples. It has potential as an erotic party game, a relationship game to help get to know each other or even as a foreplay game with intimate forfeits. This is one game you should add to your collection of couples games – you can play it any time or any where.

The basics of the game are fairly straight forward: one person tells three statements about themselves – two truthful and one lie in any order – and another player is selected to correctly identify which is the lie. If they guess wrong a forfeit must be paid. The movie had a scene with three women and three guys playing it as a strip game. In one very erotic scene, it was mentioned that they were in the sexual part of the game but did not elaborate on the subtleties of the rules. With the drinks and the hot seductive talk, wild sex was definitely the ultimate reward.

Let’s explore some possible rules in more detail so that you can play this game yourself with your partner or a group of friends.

1. Players sit around a circle with men and women across from each other. Each round, randomly pair up two people with one designated as the speaker and the other the listener. In the movie, they spun a knife (yikes) but you may prefer a spin-the-bottle or spin-the-vibrator technique (a glass dildo works great too). The two people it lines up with are selected and the person pointed to tells their tales. This works when matching up couples but you may want to rotate the pairing when playing with a group of friends. If playing with just the two of you, alternate roles.
2. The True, True, Lie statements told need to be about yourself. Depending on how comfortable every one is, you may want to start with relatively tame tales leaving the juicy stuff until later in the game. The other players may laugh, giggle or even make encouraging comments but are not allowed to give anything away if they know the truth – you want to get everyone involved in the fun. Number the statements first, second, third as you say them so that supporting comments and discussion don’t confuse things.
3. Agree on the specific forfeit before you start each round. You can set it up with just a penalty for not guessing the lie correctly or you can include a reward for getting it right. For example, make it a strip game. If you guess the lie correctly the player telling the tales removes an article of clothing otherwise you do. Later you can introduce sexy dares or sexual favors. Be sure to agree on the stakes first – your naughty negotiation encourages you to think and talk dirty which adds to the fun.
4. When telling your tales, your goal is to convince the other players that one of your truths is a lie while your lie is the truth. Be misleading and seductively devious in what and how you reveal things about yourself. I really liked the “I’m not wearing any panties” line in the movie. You can start with any topic naughty or nice but as you get more into the game, agree to switch the subject to a more sexual theme. Maybe agree on the subject matter for a certain number of rounds such as locations you’ve had sex, sex when you were younger, sexual preferences (techniques, positions, sex toys), wild sexual experiences, role play adventures, fantasies, etc. Or roll dice each round to choose a topic from a list.
5. Finish the game when ever you choose. There are no real winners or losers – having fun is the goal. However, if this game leads to frisky foreplay and wild sex, you all win.

One caution – when playing truth or dare type games, lying about the lies defeats the purpose of having fun. Revealing things about yourself can make you feel a little vulnerable but thrilling at the same time. Be selective in what you are willing to say especially in a new relationship – build up to more personal disclosures as you mutually discover more about each other.

Not all lies or truths can be verified easily but as seen in the movie, sometimes the proving part can be extremely erotic too. In general, you need to trust each other and go with the flow of the game. Pick rewards and forfeits you basically want to do anyway – the game is just giving you a good reason.

If you know of any rules that I have missed or have ideas for further improvements, please leave a comment for others to read. Opinions on the movie are also welcome.

Here are two other adult party games that will get you thinking and talking about sex and each other: I’ve Never and Dirty Minds – check them out.

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It’s not magic or rocket science. Once you get the hang of a few design ideas, you can quickly and easily come up with sexy new rules for your card games. Surprise your partner with your own erotic ideas or get them involved in the fun and design a sex game together. You can make your sexy rule changes simple or as elaborate as you desire. You can even change the rules together as you play the game – start slow and increase the stakes after each round of play.

Here are a few types of rule enhancement ideas you can use to transform regular card games into foreplay favorites:

• Agree on a sexual favor or reward for the overall game winner
• List various foreplay activities to be performed after each round
• Define erotic penalties for losing a round or the game
• Map certain accomplishments with sexual treats (reward matches difficulty)
• Use the card that wins a hand to determine a foreplay activity
• Set certain foreplay activities to be performed at specific point levels
• Assign values to various sexual activities so they can be bet as markers
• Match specific game events to different pleasuring activities

You can easily create a strip game like strip poker by having the loser of each round remove an article of clothing. It’s also fairly straight forward to agree on a sexual favor or fantasy reward for winning the game. But you can make your sexy card games even more fun by adding in a range of other intimate and daring sexual activities.

Consider that there are 13 card values, 26 colored card values (red & black) and 52 suited card values. Mix in the Jokers for extra special play. Each of these cards can be mapped to a foreplay activity or sexual reward. You can even create his & her versions of each activity – be as romantic, wild or kinky as you want. Many card games involve certain events where you can identify a special card that was played – use it to determine an activity to be performed. For example:

• Crazy Eights: the suit can be changed by playing a card of the same value
• Poker: highest card making the win (King high, pair of twos, 3 Queens, etc.)
• War: matching cards that cause the tie break situation
• Memory: card matches discovered (reward same color or opposite colors only)
• Go Fish: card matches that you request from your partner

Be selective on which events warrant a reward or penalty – skill and luck should play a part in getting what you want. For inspiration, check out our bedroom game variations.

To help you create your own sexy card games, here are four editable PDF templates you can download, fill in and print:

• Clubs
• Diamonds
• Hearts
• Spades

Create a list of sexy activities in a word processor or spreadsheet. Use this list to copy/paste ideas into the templates. Use either one for a value based list, a red and black template for a color based list or all four for even more variety. When ever you come across a new idea, add it to your list and integrate it into your bedroom games.

Once you have one or more of these sexy idea templates filled out, you can use it to play the easiest sex game of all: shuffle the cards then alternate flipping a card and performing the action. Play with XXX cards for added visual stimulation.

Always keep your mind open for new ways to make the couples games you play more interesting. When you weave your erotic ideas with the style of games you like to play, you can create very satisfying bedroom games that keep your sex life exciting. Be sure to give your game a sexy and suggestive name that fits your playful intentions – make it special and have fun with each other.

I hope you enjoy designing and playing your very own sexy card games. If you have your own sexy card game design ideas you would like to share, please leave a comment. We would also like to receive your feedback on any couples games that you play.

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That’s where Frisky Dice come in – erotic dice combinations can be used to randomize the foreplay you enjoy. They can even be used to randomly select different sex positions, lovemaking locations, role playing ideas or even sex toys to play with. Even though you know the sex activities available, not knowing which ones or in what combination adds to the erotic anticipation and excitement.

For the following erotic dice game ideas, you will need two standard dice of different colors. This gives you 36 possible combinations (only 11 if the dice are the same color). Adapt the game designs for even more combinations using either more dice or using dice with more sides than 6. Essentially all you need to do is create a list of different activities and map them to the numbers on the dice. Then you each roll the dice in turn and perform the corresponding activity. One of the great things about making your own frisky dice is that you can design different sets of lists ranging from romantic to kinky – start off slow and change the lists when you are ready for more intense action.

Do Me Dice

You will need two lists one for each die color. Create one list with 6 actions (Do) and another list with 6 parts of your body (Me). Some samples are:

Do: kiss, lick, suck, nibble, tickle, massage
Me: arms, back, neck, legs, chest, butt

When you roll the dice, your lover matches up the corresponding action and body part then pleasures you as indicated. It can be a little tricky to choose actions that work with all the body parts especially when you attempt to work in more exotic foreplay pleasures. In some cases, think of the body part as a general region. For instance, arms could mean fingers, hand, wrist, elbow, etc. Also add a rule addition that the technique used must be slightly different each time if you get repeats.

For more fun, consider assigning sex positions (doggie, standing, oral, missionary, spoon, anal) to one list and locations (bedroom, kitchen, basement, outside, stairway, living room) to the other.

Pleasure Picker

Rather than limiting yourself to simple actions and body regions, spend a little bit more effort and detail 36 different pleasuring activities. Since you won’t have to worry about strange combinations that don’t make sense, you are free to include a full range of foreplay techniques. Include some exotic foreplay ideas you secretly desire. Design the list so you have a complete menu of erotic delights to enjoy. You can even create separate his & hers lists together. Or, make up your ideas privately to surprise each other with your wanton wish list.

Here is an editable PDF file you can download, fill in and print out: Erotic Dice Template

Create multiple lists if you desire – give each one a suggestive title. Make up 6 and use a die to choose which list you use for your bedroom games.

For each foreplay activity, agree on a time limit (requirement) of say 30 seconds to a full minute. Give yourself a few minutes at least for each sex position. Consider using a third die of a different color to determine the time – number rolled times 10 seconds of foreplay or times 1 minute for sex play. Add a fourth colored die for location around your house to really heat up the fun and games.

If you like, include other rule additions such as:

• Roll a double and you get to roll again
• If you roll two doubles in a row, strip one article of clothing
• Set a time limit of 30-60 minutes
• Check off each one done and play until you do them all

Your Frisky Dice game lists can also be used to spice up other regular games that use dice. For example, when playing Monopoly and you land on your lover’s property with a house, pay the rent but also perform the foreplay activity corresponding to your roll. And, when you land on a property with a hotel, use a hotter sex activity list.

Buy erotic dice with pre-printed actions, body parts and sex positions or design your own. Either way, it’s easy to shake up your sex life with frisky dice games for couples.

If you want a ready made sex game using 3 dice combinations, download the Frisky Foreplay game. It has over 200 erotic ideas for each of you.

Please share your Do Me Dice lists or sample Pleasure Picker ideas for others to enjoy.

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