Add Wild Words to Your Couples Games – How would you use Vainglorious in a salacious sentence or provocative paragraph?
The word today is another insult. For some reason, it made me think how many men view their penis centric sexual prowess as being all important in the bedroom. It is an attitude which makes them forget that foreplay for women is important and that learning new creative sex skills can make them a better lover. Unfortunately, by faking orgasms, women effectively perpetuate the problem and men feel no need to improve. There are many reasons why women and even men fake orgasms. In some surveys almost 50% of women and more than 10% of men have faked an orgasm at least once.
Faking now and again is not an issue in my opinion. But long term conditioning that rewards bad behaviour and poor sexual skills at the expense of your own pleasure can become a problem.
Doing some quick research, I also discovered some survey results that indicate beautify women fake it more often. And another suggests that loud carnal noises in the bedroom may just be sex play-acting. Moans, screams and squeals of delight might be used to get the guy to finish faster for what ever reason his partner might have. Physical intimacy can be fun without an orgasm but most couples still assume it’s not sex unless it’s vaginal-penile intercourse and it’s not done until the guy cums (see coital imperative and faking orgasm).
Vainglorious (vayn-GLOR-ee-uhs)
adjective: Filled with, exhibiting, or proceeding from excessive pride, especially in one’s achievements or abilities.
Trained Not To Come
Since she had been faking it all these years with theatrical moans and screams of pleasure, he vaingloriously bragged he could bring any woman to glorious orgasmic ecstasy with his main vein. But she hadn’t even had one single orgasm yet let alone multiples. Luckily she came to her senses and decided she wanted to come too.
She heard about the G-spot and the amazing orgasms she was missing out on. It was time for both of them to learn how to G-spot orgasm together. And a clitoral orgasm through oral sex sounded delicious too.
Sexy Suggestion
Art of the Moan: Men love women who moan as an expression of their passion. ‘Oohs’ and ‘Aawhs’ combined with some dirty words of encouragement add to the mental thrill. When your lover does something you like, moan to express appreciation and encourage more. Demonstrate your enthusiasm for each other whenever possible.
Being able to communicate your sexual desires and needs to your partner is a skill that takes a bit of time and effort to learn. Without a mind-meld, you need to use a range of verbal and non-verbal signals to convey the nuances of your physical and emotional arousal while not reducing it. There will always be times when you misread your partner’s body language or misinterpret their signals. But, with practice and patience, you’ll both be able to adjust and get back in synch. The key is to be willing to learn each other’s language of love and gain each other’s trust so you can communicate honestly without any inhibition.
If you want a great way to spice up your sex life even more, check out the secrets of How to Talk Dirty in the bedroom. Learn to use Dirty Talk to stimulate your lover’s erotic imagination and get her hot before you even get undressed.
Join our mental foreplay games for couples: please leave a comment and let us know how you would use Vainglorious in a succulently sexy sentence or story. It’s wildly wicked word play to get your erotic juices flowing.
