Do you have a dirty mind swirling with luscious ideas that you want to explore in and out of the bedroom? Want to feel more comfortable discussing your sexual desires and needs with your partner? Maybe you want to learn how to talk dirty to spice up your sex life. Even if you’re too shy or don’t know how, there is a sexy word game you can play to express yourself. Language and the words you use are important. Learning how to use them can make you much more confident communicating with your lover.
I have been a subscriber of the Word a Day from WordSmith.org for a number of years. Each day you can look forward to discovering a new word, an example of how it is used and a fascinating quote of the day. In addition to many relationship improvement books, I also read a variety on self improvement and business. A recurring principle is that small yet consistent daily effort is the key to success. It got me thinking that I could combine these two into a learning game for couples that is also sexually themed. And it could help couples become more comfortable discussing sexual ideas, desires, needs and even fantasies with each other.
Couples Game to Learn How to Talk Dirty
It is well known that if you want to learn and add new words to your vocabulary, you need to use them. It is also well known that sexual associations help you remember things. And of course, when you make something fun to learn, you are more apt to learn it. A sexy adult word game for couples seems to be a perfect way to marry all the ideas together.
To start, one or both of you sign up for the word of the day – if you have separate computers all the better. You will receive an email each day with the new word, its definition, an example sentence using it and a quote of the day. You can also subscribe to the RSS feed of this blog to get my updates and examples.
Each day when you get the email, write a sexy, loving or suggestive sentence, paragraph or short poem using the new word. Write anything that uses the word or a form of it in a sexual context. Make it rude, crude and funny, sweet and loving or wild and kinky. Give yourself bonus points if you can describe something frisky that you can both do later. At some point during the day, exchange your use of the word with your partner.
There will be words that you’ll struggle with to use in a sexual context. If need be, let it soak in you subconscious during the day. You’ll be amazed though how often you will come up with a creative idea for using the word.
Your goal is to learn new words together while also keeping your mind alive with sexy thoughts. You will also develop an awareness of how similar or different you each approach or think about the exact same word. The shared meanings and sexual associations you develop using the words together is a valuable bonding experience. As a side benefit, you’ll improve your comfort level for exploring dirty talk together in and out of the bedroom. You’ll discover how to express your desires and articulate your sexual needs. Hopefully it will lead to more amazing sex too.
If you want a great way to spice up your sex life even more, check out the secrets of How to Talk Dirty in the bedroom. Learn to use Dirty Talk to stimulate your erotic imagination. Use it like mental foreplay to drive each other wild even before you take your clothes off. I know you’ll enjoy it.
Dirty Word Search
For couples that enjoy dirty words, check out our naughty word search books:
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